I asked her out, and she sad no, but she doesn't even know why! She said I'm the most attractive guy she knows, she said I'm sweet, great, nice, amazing. Pretty much just perfect, I do nothing that bothers her.
What's the key thing to do here? Be patient with her? And let her figure it out? I mean, she said she'll probably say yes sometime, but right now she really just doesn't know?? Should I just be patient with her, and ask her when there's a perfect moment for it?
2007-04-19 08:49:25 · 16 answers · asked by Jordan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she going through stuff right now and maybe overwhelmed with problems. Or it can be that she probably has a hard time trusting guys and had her heart broken before.
2007-04-19 08:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by The -W!Se-OI\IE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "key" is to go find someone else.
She doesn't like you, she doesn't want you and never will. She only said those things to be nice and not hurt your feelings, however you didn't get the hint. Get with the program and leave her alone. You sound one step from becoming a stalker.
2007-04-19 08:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to ask why? The girl is not interested and she gave you an answer and you need to accept it and move on. Obviously she does not want a relationship with you even if you were the King of Prussia. Just be glad she is honest with you from the start.
2007-04-19 08:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lost in Maryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up Mr. I am pretty much perfect....my guess she is not interested in going out with you because of your attitude. How could anyone possibly compare to you?
2007-04-19 08:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really want to get the girl?
Get over her and start paying attention to someone else, then she'll come running back.
Sad you have to manipulate, but women are strange
2007-04-19 08:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jake G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be her friend for right now. keep her around and just keep doing what eve it is that she likes. take her places and jsut be nice to her. after a month or so jsut ask her if she has any feelings for u yet. dont give up jsut keep trying.
2007-04-19 08:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by kill 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't fathem her out.. I've been looking for Mr. Perfect for years =O Still no where to be found..
2007-04-19 08:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ache Will Do B-) ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's afraid to hurt your feelings? Best bet: move on. You'll be doing your sanity a favor.
2007-04-19 08:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So don't officially "go out"..try just a casual cup of coffee...or dinner...or drinks..all casual. If you keep it up...sooner or later she's gona realize...but don't let it go...keep at it. Good luck.
2007-04-19 08:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by ste.phunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she has her eye on somebody else or she knows a girl who likes you alot and she won't break the "girls code".
2007-04-19 08:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋