Spark in the bedroom...?

Question

When i married my husband i was a virgin, and he was well experienced. In the beginning our sex was mediocre to say the least. But as we became more comfortable w/ each other, we began to try new things. My husband always seems to bring something new to the bedroom, and i want to please him in the same creative ways he pleases me. So my question is this: girls, what are some creative ways you've pleased your man?... and Guys, what are some of your favorite experiences w/ a woman?

Answer 1

Since you are married I can be frank, although I won't be vulgar.

My advice to you is, learn how to "ride"

You can blow his mind with amazing ridin' skills. Work the hips girl.. and do your kegel's.

Answer 2

My husband and I both are 34, 35 and have 4 kids. All I have to do is watch porn once in awhile and spread my legs and he's happy as a peach! He doesn't give a rip about the extra's anymore, cause we're so dam tired at the end of the day! I fantasize about wild sex with him, but the fantasies don't include a house full of screaming kids and the aroma of stinky diapers that never goes away. That's just life.

Answer 3

Well,
it would be nice if the female would at least move instead of just lay there, almost like a dam mannequin at times and that's boring.

Take control, total control and ravage him, you either be on top, or doggy style because those dam push ups can get tiring, but we don't realize just how tiring because we will let our arms get amputated or just fall off before we give up until after the big "O",

so don't make him do push ups.

let him watch you play with toys

Answer 4

My favorite experiences with a woman were when we did it outdoors in a public place. Once in the middle of a park, and another time at night on the balcony of a beach lifeguard station.

Answer 5

we've been married pretty much 40 5 yrs. maximum of our intercourse has been (and nonetheless is) of the relaxing and playful style, no longer the music and candlelight style. think of exterior the mattress room. next time you're taking a tub, placed on in basic terms the towel around the domicile for a whilst. See how long it takes earlier she pulls it off. My spouse wears in straight forward terms a Tshirt that includes mid butt. (drives me loopy) cook dinner breakfast for her and sit down her on your lap and feed her. Snuggle up on the settee whilst she is staring at television, then start up unbuttoning some thing on you or on her. Have a bare video evening the place you the two sit down bare on the settee, popcorn and beverages, and watch some thing you like (would not might desire to be porn). Have bare breakfast on Saturday mornings. do no longer ignore automobile intercourse. Scout out a place once you're on my own, then one evening once you're making use of domicile, pass to the spot.. Pull out some battery powered candles for the dashboard. We had a e book reported as "one hundred and one sexual positions" and a jar with products of paper numbered a million to one hundred and one. we'd %. a selection and take a examine out that place. Have intercourse in each room, on, decrease than, or beside each and each piece of fixtures. try intercourse on the stairs. once you have performed a number of those, undertaking him to return up with some thing. yet maximum of all have relaxing!!!!

Answer 6

If you go down, try doing it with an Altoid. I've never tried that but I heard guys LOVE it. Also try edible body latex, spandex, whatever it's called. Try thinking OUTSIDE of the box. Try looking up tips on the internet.

Answer 7

The best solution is to gain control over it. As someone already said, stop when you're getting there and relax. Pay more attention to pleasuring your mate--orally, perhaps--and avoid rubbing your penis up against anything while doing so. It will take work on your part and patience on both parts. Learn here http://EndPrematureEjaculation.enle.info/?7rHR

As a last resort, some antidepressants curb sexual functioning with the intention of learning the pleasure of restraint after which you could taper off them. Here's your goal: the longer you can delay your orgasm, the more intense it will be. So it isn't just a matter of satisfying your mate. This is the main reason some claim stoned sex is better, unlike drunk sex which can leave you unable to perform (brewer's droop). You enjoy exploring each other longer. And remember, oral isn't just one place. It's all over, paying particular attention to kissing, and TALK about what each of you like. Strange how people don't talk about sex when they're the ones doing it.

Answer 8

whip cream chocolate syrup and if your really spicy bring another girl in and let him watch you guys but it depends on ur preferences. but the whipped cream and chocolate and some cherries or strawberries is a must

Answer 9

the wildest thing i have ever done is i caught my hubby looking at porn on the Internet (i know he dose this and it doesn't bother me) and i gave him a BJ while he was surfing. that's about it in our bedroom my hubby likes the same old same old.

Answer 10

Masturbating together is a awesome feeling if your comfortable with your body. Me and my gf do it all the time and we enjoy it more then sex almost, its like a close way we bond.