I hangout at this local bar every so often, the first night i met the bartender we hit it off and he asked for my phone number, i heard he has a girlfriend, so i gave him my card(business purposes) and i left to go to a freinds house,he found out i was there(he is also friends w/him) and he came over,i crashed on the couch and him on the floor.Everytime i go in there he makes comments to me about calling me and flirts w/me,at one point he yelled to me'i love you' as i was leaving.I usually blow off his comments and continue to have fun w/my friends and other people there even though i like him,but i hear he has a girlfriend so i dont want to be'the other girl'.Im tired of getting the impression that he likes me more than a bar flirt and i want to find out,what should i say to him?
2007-04-19 07:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he obviously looks at u as a friend, ask him out and if he says no then you know he has a girlfriend, if he says yes, then good for you
2007-04-19 07:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by YWWE>BVW>mwwe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in him...ask him straight out "I heard you have a girl friend, is this true?" If you just consider yourselves friends...maybe let him know quietly that some of his comments are causing concern while assuring him you appreciate his friendship. Either way, the best policy is honesty. Ask the guy the question instead of relying on "I heard..." type information. Maybe the person you heard this from is also interested in the guy and wants you out of the way.. Ask him.
2007-04-19 14:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has several girlfriends. Bartenders get more tail than a vet clinic. And he has a girlfriend. And you don't want to be "the other girl". So what's your question?
2007-04-19 14:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by mantoothnation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing jus keep flirting that to lose him by saying no and be the other women by saying yes
2007-04-19 14:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk tohim wen he's sober and ask him.Tell him what u have to tell him and see wat he says. If he still acts childish, tell him to leave u alone b/c there's no chance!
2007-04-19 14:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mi$$ P3rf3ct 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should say ..."So set 'em up Joe .. I got a little story to tell you.."
2007-04-19 14:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by mnencefront 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋