I'm confused by what he meant or maybe I'm over thinking?

Question

I talked to my bf last night, it was probably about 11:45 at night we had a long conversation but after we got off the phone he said I might come by there but I'm not making any promises. He's at my place 5 nights a week & even when he isn't he comes by every morning to shower because his water is off at his place. When he said this I assumed that he meant he might come by last night after he got done studied but he didn't know 4 sure if he would.

I woke up this morning & felt like maybe he meant he wasn't coming by this morning. I mean he comes by everyday to take a shower, maybe I'm feeling insecure & feel like he said he wasn't going to come by this morning because he may be spending the night some where else. Am I thinking 2 hard. I mean he has a key to my place & when he comes in the morning I've already left 4 work anyway so why would he feel the need 2 mention that he may not come if I wasn't going 2 be there anyway.

He didn't come by last night but my first mind told me that he probably said that to me just to make sure that I don't have any other guy over while he's not there.
Which one do you think? He didn't come last night but he said he might come by but wasn't making any promises, did he mean last night or this morning? I don't want to ask him because I don't want 2 seem stupid. It's just he's never said that before & I may just be thinking too hard about it.

He didn't come by last night but my first mind told me that he probably said that to me just to make sure that I don't have any other guy over while he's not there.
Which one do you think? He didn't come last night but he said he might come by but wasn't making any promises, did he mean last night or this morning? I don't want to ask him because I don't want 2 seem stupid. It's just he's never said that before & I may just be thinking too hard about it.

Answer 1

Wow if you weren't over-thinking this I'm pretty sure it would be something else with this guy... understand this is usually a symtom of the mind fighting with the heart. Your best bet is to talk to him about this and don't let this go when they bother you. He is your boyfriend right? I mean lets say you say something completely stupid to him, do you want a boyfriend that well drop you at that, or one that well let out a little chucle and tell you o don't be silly, baby.... I mean come on talk to him!!! It well make you feel better. What bothers me is your guys set up thou.... seems like you've gaven him alot of leway in your life and its starting to bug you.... might want to have another long conversation with him about the way you feel or just swallow this and accept he loves you.... if you can...