he has been asking me to go out with him for a while and i dont know if i should because i think he would be cheating on me. what should i do?????
2007-04-19 03:20:59 · 20 answers · asked by ms niesha need a hood boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is cheating.........better find someone better than him,,............ guys will always be guys..........but try to give him a chance if you really love him, if it work, good for you,,, if not.... well..... everything in our life has a reason.... dont be afraid to look for your ideal man....... goodluck
2007-04-19 03:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by system32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who has been there (had a questionable guy interested in me for a long time), done that (went out with guy against my better judgement), and ended up regretting it (got cheated on and dumped within a week)! 10 years later, he is married and still cheating. Sickens me.
I say trust your instincts for the time being. Tell him that although you are flattered that he is intrested in you, that you would like to remain friends for awhile so you can get to know him a little more. Keep to your word and do get to know him more. If you find something you don`t like about him, tell him honestly that you find the way he is behaving has convinced you that he is not the right guy for you. He may take it to heart on account that he likes you and respects you. But once you decide to go further with him, he will think "ha! I got her!!!" and any respect he had for you might be lost. If you are anything like me, you will feel incredible stupid for trusting him against your better judgement.
2007-04-19 03:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by Smiley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him then go for it, if you think he's cheating on you ask him, and if he seem's like he's lieing say "tell me the truth or it's over,even if you tell me what i think i might hear" And if he really care's and want's to be with you then he will answer honestly. If he does lie to you and you find out later that he was cheating dump him on the spot, he's not worth your time.
Once a man cheat's he alway's will cheat.
2007-04-19 03:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by marya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's how you really feel you don't have much of positive thing to start with. I felt like that about someone that wanted to go out with me too. And guess what??? He cheated. Go with your instinct.
2007-04-19 03:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I first started dating my boyfriend, one of his exes told me information about him to me without me asking, now honestly the only advice I could give is to be cautious, go out with him, My boyfriend I spend 4 days out of the week together. 3 days away from each. the info. that I was given about him is that he's a player...everytime I see him hangout with another chica I never accuse him of cheating, because if you accuse him of cheating then he's more likely to cheat.
2007-04-19 03:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Dani021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why do you think he will cheat? if its because he has cheated on other girls it doesnt necessarily mean he will cheat on you but there is always a risk. and if he has cheated on you before DONT TAKE HIM BACK cuz he knows he can get away with it
2007-04-19 03:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say take the chance! You have nothing to lose and it could be a really rewarding relationship. If it ends up he does cheat on you then simply break up with him. Take the chance!
2007-04-19 03:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you say that you think he'll cheat on you? If your gut instinct tells you that he's not going to be worth your time, well, take a walk, 'cuz there are a whole lot of other men who'll actually be worth your time. :)
2007-04-19 03:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by Helen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him give him a chance, but keep your guard up, and let him know that you don't trust him due to his cheating past.
2007-04-19 03:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first see him as a friend....because u never know how bad itll be if u guys break up...
if u think hell cheat then dont do it cuz itll hurt....when u find out from someone....
2007-04-19 03:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by brokenheart89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him.. Don't assume he is going to cheat you..
2007-04-19 03:29:09 · answer #11 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋