I am torn as to what to do!
My ex ended our relationship out of the blue 3 mths ago. She was the love of my life!
She said her feelings changed in a short period and ended things. No amount of me persuading her to do otherwise had any effect.
I have now met someone else. We have loads in common, and I can see me and her really working. In fact, I could see us being together long term, sometimes you just get that feeling and I have only been out with her 4 times!
Trouble is, she is not my ex!! I know I will forget about my ex over time!
My ex has now been hinting that she made a mistake. What do I do????
Do I totally forget about my ex, blow her out, and concentrate on the new girl or see what is there with my ex??
2007-04-19 04:50:06 · 26 answers · asked by Paul S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
right now you ex is jealous that you found someone new and the fact that she don't want to see you happy with someone else and she began to miss you......... I been there and done that......I admit that I did that to my high school boy friend but hey I was a kid I broke up with him because my feelings changed for him I didn't find him attractive anymore and I told him I loved him and he believed me (I didn't even now what love was but now I'm older I know)......When he found someone else that he started talking to I became jealous and I began to miss him......I called him and told him I made a mistake (the old trick in the book line) and he took me back...after giving it another try I began to feel the same way again and dumped him again......he was so mad he began to cry and go crazy......I felt so bad but I knew I couldn't be with him....until this day I do love him but not in love with him...she is confused don't take her back trust me
2007-04-19 05:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...your ex HAS made a huge mistake...not you! Tell her she's forgiven. Surely you still have feelings for your ex my friend....and I would imagine the heartache and the pain and misery she's caused you are still there too! You do remember her inflicting this painful stuff upon you directly...don't you? It's still her mistake partner...not yours! The new girl hasn't brought you any of this kind of nonsense reasonably. She deserves a good solid chance with you too! After all...she seems like long term material for you. (your words) Tell your ex you forgive her for her past mistakes and sins......but also tell her you have just started a true and new promising relationship with someone else now. Let her know also she is not to interfere with you and your new gal pal either. If things don't work out for the new two of you...you can tell your ex she'll be the first one to know....and thank you very much! Need I say more?
2007-04-19 05:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to ask yourself what if you get back with your ex and 3 months down the line she breaks up with you again. Then you will be back at the beginning again, broken hearted and the other girl you didn't give a chance to will be happy with a guy who did.
Like you said, you will get over your ex in time and this new girl seems to be a fresh start for you. So what do you want to do, go back to your past or start a fresh.
Only you can decide babe.
Good luck xxx
2007-04-19 04:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget your Ex, she is your Ex she is the past.
Do not speak to your new friend about your Ex you treat your new friend well & stay loyal.
You will be better off long term.
Many girls & women think that the grass is greener, that is because they talk & get lead by their friends whereas men dont talk about it.
I am sure your Ex feels that she has done the wrong thing, thats her loss.
You be happy & look after this one & make sure she looks after you.
Remember if you can count true friends in your life you will be lucky to have a handful, your girlfriend/wife will be a true friend & you will know it.
Friends never desert you.
2007-04-19 05:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the ex. She dumped you out of the blue and didn't want you back. Does she know you're seeing someone else? If she does, it may be a case of she doesn't want you but no-one else can have you. You said you like this new girl, well give it a chance and don't let your ex rule your decisions.
2007-04-19 04:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the new 1 an ex is so for a reason.
2007-04-19 06:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by scorpiotoo2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had problems before with your ex than things arent going to get better. Try something new, give the other girl a chance and maybe she wont make mistakes.
2007-04-19 04:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd try the new girl - if the relationship didn't work the first time it rarely will a second. What ever problems were there before will probably resurface again if you get back together with the old one
2007-04-19 04:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by board-stupid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't call EX's ex's for nothing. Go with the new person. If you have all that in common, stay with her. Your ex will play games with you. She will see that you are happy and may not want that b/c SHE isn't the one making you happy.
Yes, over time, you will heal. Enjoy yourself with this new person.
2007-04-19 06:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by kr8zy4r8cin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say move on with e next gal. cos your ex might do e same to you again! unless u still loves her lots then its a different story, else give yourself and e other gal a chance. if u guys are meant to be together eventually things will work out. good luck.
2007-04-19 04:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋