Has anyone got back together with an ex.....?

Question

and it actually worked out?? If you have why do you think it worked out the second time around? If not, why – b/c the same problems were there...the other person never changed?

Answer 1

well i have dated a few of my exs but it didnt work my hubby and i worked out but that is just because he loved me enough to make it work cuz i messed it up when we were dating but i dont beleive it works but i cant let the past be the past and still think of 2 exs on a day to day bases so good lick in what you decide if you need to try it i would or you will be like me wondering what if all the time

Answer 2

I got back with my ex several times and he promised he would change and a couple weeks later he would be back doing the same thing but trying to make it seem like a different issue and never owning up to what he had done. I eventually left him alone and found someone else who could appreciate me and I challenge you to do the same. Life will be so much better. good luck :)

Answer 3

Exs are heart break, and I think personally after doing it soo many times its not worth it. People only change if they want to.. and that rare for someone to realize they need to change and do something about it! With my ex, I was just head over heels but he didnt see it the same way. i tred to convience myslef if I hung around long enough he'd fall in love, and his issues we had in the relationship would go away and they didnt..they got worst ...sure you learn to cope with the issues or learn to avoid the arguments, but its a hasstle.

Answer 4

I was actually lucky enough to get a second chance. We dated for a little over six months, but he wanted to get serious and I did not. However, we stayed friends, and eventually became best friends. It stayed this way for almost a year, then it hit me like a ton of bricks. I am totally in love with this man. He's now my husband. Had he not given me a second chance, I wouldn't have my precious little girl or this wonderful life. Follow your heart! God Bless

Answer 5

i did once and it didn't work out i found out from a friend of ours that i was just the "fall back girl"

when someone breaks up with you its for a reason and the only reason they want to get back with you is cus they are alone and they dont have anyone at the time and they know that you will come running back to them

its mean but many people do it alot i wouldn't get back with them and if you do go reeeeeaaaaaaallllllly reallly slow

Answer 6

I did for a while, never got remarried, still had most of the same problems. It's never good to remarry someone you got divorced from. We talked alot and worked things out made amends but that's about it.

Answer 7

I've heard about to many past relationships of reruns. I'm not setting myself up for another heartbreak. A person will only change if they want to change. It's harder than you think. If you do decide to get back with them, don't let your heart get to wrapped up into it just yet. Other wise you'll be broken.

Answer 8

I am going out with one of my ex bf that i dated last year and we have been together for about 3 and a half months try it i if it don't work out then just break up with him.
Good Luck

Answer 9

It worked out for a little while longer... but eventually the ending was the same.


Started fresh after that, found the right one, been happy for 20 years since.

Answer 10

The other person hasn't changed and won't. You are fooling yourself if you think otherwise. He only wants you now to use you for sex. Once he is tired of you, it will be over again.

Time has made you forget the bad parts.