2007-04-19 06:53:59 · 24 answers · asked by vishwas d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Virginity can be tested in Dr. clinic.But you don't do that because that too is not a confirmatory test.
But virginity or virgins use to be girls who use to just stay at home not sports girls& use too get marries at the age of 10-12
The hymen or the memberain which is in Vagina can rapture due to any kind of fall or blow. Now a days girls use tempons. That can cause ruptur of the hymen too.
I have read several answers of doctors who adviced to the girl who was raped.They said just forget that you were raped.
If you think about Aids etc. Sex is not the only reason for the Aids. One girl I know got married to a US citizen by arrange marriage. Husband use to go very frequently to visit her. Loved her like his own life. At the time of her visa when her blood was checked she had HIV. She was sick once & she went through blood transfusion.
verginity is not the main thing in a marriage.
Be sure are you getting beautiful ,educated, cultured & healthy girl who will give you beautiful healthy children & give them great education.
If a girl is still unmarried & waiting for parents to get her match she is vergin. Otherwise .......
Have faith on yourself & on her too.
In dating too you can not be sure that you have coupelated a vergin girl or used?
As I said verginity is not the main thing.
2007-04-19 08:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
As an explanation for why some girls' hymens did not break the first time they had sex, some offered the explanation that other factors could have broken the hymen first, like sports or using tampons. The hymen actually rarely if ever breaks because of these factors, and the real explanation is that the hymen does not always break the first time a woman has sex (only about 50% of the time). Some women's hymens are just stretchier or smaller than others. The only thing that will ensure 100% that the hymen will break is vaginal childbirth, so there is no way to know for sure that a woman is not a virgin unless she has given birth.
2007-04-19 07:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're agreeing to an arranged marriage, you're trusting your parent's judgement that this woman is the best mate for you... whether or not she is a virgin, whether or not she may have character flaws that you don't care for. So take what you get.
Or, tell your parents that you would rather get to know her BEFORE you agree to marry her. Start dating her, spending time with her, get to know her as a person, and slowly develop a physical intimacy. Sooner or later she'll start to trust you, and then she'll tell you about her sexual history (or lack thereof).
2007-04-19 07:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
first of all if your marring into a family that does the arranged marriage bit.. then more than like she will be a virgin..in the USA it is not so important.. but is some cultures it is.. you may need to ask your father about how he knew if your mom was one.. or a older brother or cousin they may can help you better on this one..
2007-04-19 08:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by vis 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is not a matter of arranged or love marriage. Unless a girl tells you cannot assess her verginity. In countries like India now only ther are very slight awarness of AIDS and so on, In India now only we are thinking of having a HIV check for both male and female before marriage. You cannot insist for HIV check for arranged marriage, If you are very free with your girl friend you can ask for HIV check for any affair before your affair.
2007-04-19 07:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by tangapandian j 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anatomical explanation for virginity is absence of the thin membrane called hymen in the vagina.
This membrane is prone to rupture due to various reason like: cycling, brisk athletic games, insertion of finger etc and its absence should not be construed as something immoral.
Just as the girl has no way to know the sex habits of the boy, the boy should not jump to conclusion on the girl just because the covering sheath is not there.
It was one of the indicator on the character of the girl in ancient times when cycle and other brisk activities were unknown particularly to the girls.
In the present life style, such belief has no place.
2007-04-19 07:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by Chichi 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why in the world would she not tell you ? I f she can't be open with this simple question then maybe its not a good time to ask her hand in marriage
2007-04-19 06:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by Mellycat123 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
The most important thing is trust.if she cant tell u about it then how will she trust u after marriage
2014-09-12 01:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by dinson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what i heard. i am not saying it's true. observe the space between her legs when walking or standing. if it much larger than a young girl (virgin), "it means something"
By the way I don't believe this because it is not factual however maybe it would help you to know what nonsense people talk about regarding this issue.
2007-04-19 07:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mamba 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
what makes different?if she says that she is virgin trust her that is the best way to feel happy
2007-04-19 07:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋