so if you were dating someone and you ended up not wanting to be in a relationship would you flat out tell her that you didn't want her, or would you drag the relationship on till she finally broke up with you?
i have found guys are to scared to end it but i want your opinion please
2007-04-19 06:56:04 · 17 answers · asked by carmelfude2003 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've done both.
The first real relationship I had was terrible. She was at least a foot taller than me, and a lot bigger. She was nice at first, but as the relationship continued she was overbearing and mean. She turned out to be a real ogre. I had changed everything about myself to be with her, even to the point of nearly severing family ties. I knew it needed to end - but I was too scared. So, I drug it out for another year and a half until she finally broke up with me.
The next girl I dated just wasn't my type. I had grown a little bit since the last gf, and knew what I was looking for. Once I decided to end it, I ended that evening.
So to answer your question, I guess it depends on the guy, and/or the circumstance.
2007-04-19 07:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Indignant 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are not scared to end a relationship, but why be the bad guy if you don't have too? It's easy to get a girl to break-up with you, that way you can walk away clean.
Of course you can always say "I still want to be friends", we learned that one from women.
2007-04-19 14:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dragged it out with a x back in the day after dating for 2 years when i finally tried everything she still wouldnt break up then i told her, however still didnt work i didnt end up falling til 5 years after being with her and her forcing herself to be with me funny thing is the 7 year itch came and she cheated/dumped me so my advice just break up and avoid the hassle of being broken hearted
2007-04-19 14:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by dpljr133 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
experience acquired out in the real world suggests most people (male and female) won't let go of a relationship, until they have something to fill the gap. they see change as a loss of control or power. and the thought of starting new and fresh is the basis of the fear you mentioned.
2007-04-19 14:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by bilez1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just end it it is like a band-aid it hurts less to pull it off quick most guys unless they are real young and think they can't get anyone else break it off quick most girls are slower but still do it semi quick
2007-04-19 14:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by Bear_Polaroid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am not scared but i just dont have the heart to hurt someone so i probably would drag it out until she finally broke up with me.
Or fake my death
2007-04-19 14:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by YWWE>BVW>mwwe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will generally drag the relationship on for as long as possible to get as much sexual favours as they can.
2007-04-19 13:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by gumdroplane 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok I told a few girl this and it work when I broke up with them.
" ok this is not working. I think we should not see other. I make the rules when I break up with a person I don't speak to her, see her, call her, email her I just want to have nothing to do with that person. it's nothing personal but I don't want to be that "FRIEND" cause I'm not that kind of person. I want to move on and get on with my life. OK?"
try it. it what we called a "clean break"
2007-04-19 14:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to break up for guys.
Has to do with their self image.
They can't bare to have left a negative image on another person.
It will just destroy him inside.
2007-04-19 14:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by gabriel f 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha, that so true. guy normally will avoiding gal when they not interested. they wont tell u the truth, they just poof like that. so if guy start avoiding u, that mean they not interested and want u stay away.
2007-04-19 14:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sweety 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋