ne ways i am dating this guy with whom i broke up=got 2gether with my ex since we figured out what we needed to=and all of a sudden he is acting more distant than usual.he will give me a kiss on the cheek,few on the lips,will tell me that he will call and then forget-happened twice-and i know that he is busy with his school work and trying to make good grades as well as going to work part time.i know that he is giving up a lot at the moment with the posibility of him wanting to open a business and a lot being at steak-he is 24 and i am 22;we dated for 20 months before calling it quits and started to redate 4-5 weeks ago;but why is he not that close to me ne more?before he would come and hang out at my place and now it is less and less:live in a dorm and him in an apartment he is renting at the same univ.and i know that my place is not as big or spacious as his so what is stopping him?i already put a lot in our relationship yet feel confused rt now by his behavior.i know he does luvs me
2007-04-19 00:02:56 · 4 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not asking him to bend his back for me but all i am asking is for him to actually show affection and be like a normal person and not so work and school.our relationship is ok rt now but i cannot go up to him and tell him what is on my mind because he will say that he is ok and he is just tired and busy.is it normal for this to happen especially when the 2 people are so in love?plus i am really confused about a lot of things that he wants from life because he wants something one sec and something else the next day..am i putting too much pressure on him?why can't he just show more emotion like maybe hold hands more often in public,actually acting more like a couple rather than friends and it is me who kisses him bye and not him which is sad.i want to tell him in a nice way what is bothering me but how?
2007-04-19 00:07:45 · update #1
There is only one way to remedy this problem. Tell him that you think that he may not love you as he did before. Tell him that he needs to show you love. Let him know that you are very unhappy, and that if it continues this way, you don't know if you can remain in the relationship.
If he doesn't respond, he is probably trying to get out of the relationship.
2007-04-19 00:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you've gotten your self into you've got to make your choices and say yes to yes and no to no because whenever you break up with a guy and get back together your love becomes less than it was when you guys were together and now he doesn't have time for you he puts you behind his work.Well if I were you i'll him it's over.
2007-04-19 07:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by sexy2flirty_beachbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In these situations , i listen to my gut instunct, because thats always right. sometimes our voices in our heas make us do stupid things. LISTEN TO YOUR GUT INSTINCT
2007-04-19 07:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Helen C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is an action... if he aint acting like it... than he does not!
2007-04-19 07:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by maddogcrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋