Is there any downside, ya think, to having your first physically intimate experience (say being blown) involve a 'sex worker'? (I'm 22)
I realize this sounds sort of bizarre but I'm serious! My logic is that 'getting something' once will improve the confidence level, which in turn will have a positive feedback effect... Heck, on the morality scale it beats 'playing someone' which is how many guys did it the first time right?
2007-04-19 01:16:31 · 8 answers · asked by ratherlate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS. Oh yeah, forgot to add that yes I'm painfully shy/dorky, so no problem with your assuming that, I figured it was implicit.
2007-04-19 01:28:46 · update #1
I dont think there's a problem with it really... but u have to think that ur first experience -if do it with a prostitute- won't be as satisfying as it could be if u did it with some1 u conquered on ur own.... a prostitute will only be doing her job, getting u excited for the money, all she will care about, THE MONEY!!!... u do it with some1 who u've won her heart... she will try to do her best to please u, she will be in love with u, and will be understanding, passionate, and of course, she will most likely be inlove with u... i assume that it would be a better and more satisfying experience to do it with some1 u've conquered on ur own, rather than paying some1... and i think u should've had sex like a loooooooooooong time ago, so u wouldn't be as frustrated... try to go out, go to clubs, try to meet new girls.... try to be more confident in urself, if u feel u r too dorky-and sorry, that s just the improession i get since ur 22 and still a virgin- i think u should actually change the way u dress in order to get girls... good luck dude, and i actually think that's adorable to be a virgin
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2007-04-19 01:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay my friend let get this right..you wanna pay for something that's free(Well in theory it's free) I think you should wait till it means something to you. If you just sleep with a "sex worker" you'll polly be disappointed and think all sex is like that. Let me tell you sex is more about the emotion then the actually physical(but the physical is great) just my advice wait a Little while. here's something else STOP Being so shy it doesn't do you any flavors and women don't find that attractive..
2007-04-19 09:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by prettytony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if your shy and a little dorky??? There are girls out there like that too! I`d wait till you meet the right one and really enjoy the moment. You`ll regret paying for it somehow, someday! Your only 22, and the right girl is out there waiting for you to come find her. GET GOING!!!!
2007-04-19 08:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by MISTY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want your first time to be a one night stand... Find a girl get to know her, have a relationship then get intimate.
2007-04-19 08:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Virgo Rose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...why are you in a hurry, let nature take its course.
2007-04-19 08:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by mistaken_identity 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats so gross!! Women dont want to be with a man that has to pay for it.
2007-04-19 08:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by mama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um you could but ..
herpes!, and its illegal. but if you are willing to risk it for your "confidence" then go ahead.
2007-04-19 08:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ewwww diseases!
2007-04-19 08:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by Emmy F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋