I was in a relationship for 3 yrs, and we were engaged, and had a son that was 6 months old. My fiancee left me saying he needed time, so I gave that to him.Now before this happened it was all about me and he would never have did anything to hurt me. Yea I wanted him back and i cried all the time because of it. Well the whole time I figured it was because a girl at work, and he denied it. When he was ready to take me back, I had found someone that made me so happy, and that would do everything for me, and I also found out my ex had been with another girl, and had slept with my best friend of 4 yrs. Till this day he is wanting me to get back with him, and Just the other day i found a letter in his truck from a girl saying they were in love with him, etc.... and he is denying everything saying the girl is crazy and saying the only one i want is you, etc. yea I wanna trust him but how can i, and how can i give up someone that makes me happy to be with him, and he could do everything again
2007-04-19 00:21:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I really would like to have my family back with him because I always dreamed of me and him being a family, and we had our son, we were just waiting on marriage, and i do want to trust him again so bad, but how can I??
2007-04-19 00:52:21 · update #1
i feel u should leave ur ex cos if he loves u, he wont do all the crap he did, be with the second guy.
2007-04-19 00:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be better off staying away from your ex. He will hurt you again and again, now matter how much you love him. Having a child with him obviously creates a great deal of emotional bonding between the two of you, but if your child, who at six months will never know (look up childhood amnesia) is as happy with the new guy then going back would be a mistake. I would also find a new best friend.
2007-04-19 07:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the one who makes you happy. You won`t be able to trust your fiancee. He slept with your best friend! I could never trust a man who did that again. I`d pick # 2.
2007-04-19 07:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by MISTY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've moved on and are now happy. If this new guy is good to you and your child then stay with him. It is my opinion that people don't change their cheating ways. He doesn't deserve a second chance. Just try to have a civil relationship for the sake of your son.
2007-04-19 07:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by j81s79j06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know i wouldn't take him back, as the saying goes, once a cheater always a cheater. Men like that are slime. Girl if you have a guy that makes you happy i`d say stay with him, he`s worth it.
2007-04-19 07:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No where is it written that you have to take the lying cheater back. That's a personal choice and a bad one to make if you decide to let him back in.
2007-04-19 07:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are so happy why are you even thinking about the other one ? put the past behind you now , it is hard enough trying to find someone that is going to make you happy ! put the other relationship to rest and go foward with the man your with ! good luck !
2007-04-19 07:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by dawn p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the other guy....
It sounds to me like he wants the best of both worlds and dont let him have it.
2007-04-19 08:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by Vada83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes cheated on u before he will do it again! leave him be and just focus on ur future with someone else
2007-04-19 07:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by MissyRC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say ...
but do you thing thte words you are having above deserves to be called "relationship"...
Relationship: is a true carring to someone.
2007-04-19 07:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋