Let me give the background. 7 months ago my wife left me for no apparent reason. We were together for 5 yrs, married for 1. Its been tough but I have managed to get over her for the most part. I have been dating a new woman for the past 2 months and I think she is great. She has told me (at the beginning) how great she thinks I am, how attracted she it to me...etc. She made me feel on cloud nine. We like all the same things and even have the same faith. Last week however, she freaked out one day and told me she was scared she was in another relationship. Since then she has been cold and distant. She told me she was worried since I am still legally married till June and want to "Slow" things down. I was cool with that but my definition of slow must be different then hers. Is "slow" an excuse to get out of this new relationship? She sure seemed fine with me being married a few weeks ago when we were kissing everyday. Ladies is she feeding me a line or should I be patient with her? Thanks
2007-04-19 12:49:00 · 6 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She still calls and emails but waaayyyy less. She seems more busy when I ask her to do things too.
2007-04-19 12:58:04 · update #1
She isn't feeding you a line, she has come to her senses. You are NOT available.
2007-04-19 12:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by goodness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she would of taken it slow from the beginning I would of said just go to her rhythm but it`s not the case. If suddenly it goes slow it`s because something else got her attention or some new information on you bothers her (not the fact you`re married she knew that already)
2007-04-19 19:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually that means we want out-but has all things changed?do u still go out,see each other at all??does she call you ?for a women that wants to eventually get married maybe she does, just need time since u are still"married"-maybe she sees it as you two cant go much further then where it is now because of this!!why dont you just ask her instead of putting yourself through this??
2007-04-19 19:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by babejones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she is playing you like an air guitar---cut her off and delete her now. Do NOT accept any e-mail messages. She is using you as a fallback guy. Find someone decent.
2007-04-19 20:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by dumb-blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were safe "boyfriend" as long as you were married. It gets complicated when you are free and available.
2007-04-19 19:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's half to china by now
step back from the forest n u'll see the whole place is smokin
2007-04-19 19:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋