I have a friend that I can tell cares about me but ius rude, spiteful, and malice! It takes a lot to make me mad at someone (ecspecially my friends)but she is reaching my very limits (and no she doesnt have a crush on me!) So what do I do! Please I would prefer Christian answers on this issue thanks a lot and God Bless!
2007-04-19 13:13:16 · 8 answers · asked by AtcyJAC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Now, you must remember that we have to forgive, seventy times seventy, ( and a lot beyond lol)...the best way to show and bring her to Christ, and our Wonderful Father, is by setting the example,of kindness, patience, caring, and forgiveness...even in the darkest hours...we have to remember that if we don't forgive others, God won't forgive us, and also,...we shouldn't judge, or we will be judged the same way...In all things, do that which pleases our Father, and His glorius Son, Jesus, and you can't go wrong!
2007-04-21 05:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just sit down with her and tell her, "Hey, lately you've been making me feel really mad when you do __________." If she says sorry or whatever, give her another chance. If she doesn't seem to care, don't hang out with her anymore.
I mean, if she was a real friend and valued your friendship, she'd try and change her ways or at least realize what she is doing to you. I don't wanna sound mean, but sometimes people aren't going to change their ways and they're not going to stop being disrespectful to you if you don't get yourself out of that friendship for awhile.
Pray about it if you want.
Good luck!
2007-04-19 13:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does someone care who is rude and spiteful? They might be to the rest of the world, but why treat you that way? It makes you mad. Dr. Phil, would say, 'Ya teach people how to treat ya.' You shouldn't be disrespected no matter what your beliefs.
2007-04-19 13:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by cgirl97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truly enough you care about this friend but surly when someone do something wrong, i make sure that i check them about it.
I know if they was truly my friend I ask them to not disrespect me in a bad way, i want this friendship to last a long time but I would not want them to be mean because they are disrespectful.
just msg me if you need more help.
2007-04-19 13:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already said in the first sentence that she cares about you. Use that same care in reminding her that advice is better taken with sugar than with salt.
2007-04-19 13:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know alot of people like that, just tell her that shes annoying you, and maybe she'll stop. or try to ignore it if that doesnt help. god bless
2007-04-19 13:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by David A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess that you should have a talk with your friend. Tell her that your fed up with her and you cant take her crap anymore. if she continues being rude, then just ignore her.
2007-04-19 13:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by maria d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what has she done?
2007-04-19 13:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋