Hi..
This is a wee question for the Boys.. although ladies feel free to help me out.. you might have a clearer idea of whats going wrong than me and my fellow buddies...
Im 22.. attractive (well, we know when we are right : P)Fun.. up for anything..have loadsa intrests and ambitions and great friends! god..all that sounds pig headed but believe me.. its honest!
Been in a handful of relationships that ment anythin in the past.. but im having a bit of bother these days...
I was with this guy.. lets call him Neil.. for 6 months on and of till February.. and now i feel id really like to start something meaningful again with someone..
But the kinda guys i seem to attract are totally non comittal, way too young..(most my age) and clueless on how to jus generally be with a girl!
Im probely looking in the wrong places as the majority of times i meet these guy when im hammerd on a weekend.. but im a bit of a party girl.. Im trying to calm that down a lil now.
Thanks guys
xxx
2007-04-19 23:52:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for all the great advise already people!! : )
To those that say im big headed..unmodest so to speak..
Its not that at all.. im jus being a lil truthful as how easy is it to explain yourself over text??
2007-04-20 00:09:56 · update #1
You answered that question yourself when you said that you are a party girl Most guys just figure that party girls are not the type girl you want to introduce your family to. They tend to consider them one night stands. When you dress too sexy, all they can think about is sex. A lot of women don't even think about how the guy might perceive them, because they dress to please themselves. Unfortunately guys tend to think that how you dress reflects your moral character. It is ridiculous, but it sometimes happens. Maybe you are not sending the right signals, or maybe you are looking in the wrong places.
2007-04-20 00:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try places like cafes, and bookstores and shops, its very unlikely you will meet a guy willing to give commitment in a club/bar *but you havent me me yet ;)* but to be honest this sounds daft although as a guy this worked for me (im 20) and she was 22
try the bus!
sounds daft but I did get a date from this girl who I met on the bus, we just flirted with our eyes and smiled at each other, I was brave and gave her my number, she was nice but wasnt ready for a relationship as she kept going on about her ex boyfriend but it didnt stop us from having a nice meal and goign to watch a movie together and I got two snogs from her :)
try it who knows you may have a nice night like I did and actually get the second date instead of being like me when I thought I had it in the bag and then I get the reply "Ive had some issues" yeah? but enough about me but try it, love is all around it just happens you cant make it happen go with your gut instinct :)
but good luck :)
2007-04-20 00:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by Music fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what your saying, and its going to be hard. You said your a party girl, and we all love party girls, but chances are, if you meet someone at a club/party, your not going to end up in a relationship, but in a bed. Try going to other places, like a coffee shop, or a park or something. Someone will notice you since you are attractive.
2007-04-20 00:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't meet anyone when your looking just relax and enjoy your life. If this is your only problem you don't really have a problem. When the time is right you'll meet someone until then just have fun
2007-04-20 00:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you meet guys when you are drunk i can guarantee they only want some booty. if you want to meet decent guys and have them respect you, dont go out and try to meet them when you are smashed, first impressions count for a lot and the one you are giving out is clearly not the right one.
maybe they see you as one of the lads if you love to get drunk and party. there's nothing wrong with that, but you can't have it all your own way.
2007-04-19 23:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain strong and positive.. There's always a time frame for you to meet the right guy.. Just be patient.. He will come and take you to glory.
2007-04-19 23:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already answered the question.
My dream girl isn't hammered and alone on the weekends. She's working towards her future.
2007-04-19 23:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who was that someone on the other line? If it was him, then cross him off your list. If it wasn`t, find out what is going on
2007-04-19 23:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just a little full of yourself - sorry it just how it sounds from your description.
2007-04-19 23:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by chillipope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too modest maybe?! also women expect too much
2007-04-19 23:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋