so i work with this girl. i really liked her cople of months ago. seemed like she was intrested in me as well. so i asked her out. but it didn't work, second tme she said she was bussy. she only started talking about "work realated" things.
so i backed off. juz try to be frnds with her and a good co-worker. and i try to forget that she turned my offer down. i was cool. on her b-day last month. i drew a flower on a paper, n wrote "HB-day" and since then, i noticed, she been trying to be sweet with me, nice, and been showing some real intrest in me..
i would still go out with her. so i wanna know how can i ask her out AGAIN? cuz i got turned down twice before. she's bein ratehr obvious about liking me but still i'm scared.
how should i ask her out now? What do i say?
2007-04-19 23:29:38 · 9 answers · asked by S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you said last time she was obvious about liking you also before yet she turned you down, she already knows you like her cos you asked her out twice so if she was really into you she would say something like remeber you ask me out ont hat date are you still up for it, don't make an idiot out of yourself a third time for this lady, let her do the work this time.
2007-04-19 23:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by smitters06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
S.,
Don't kid yourself...don't even try to understand what's going on. Just take the initiative, expect the worst, but hope for the best. If you leave it up to her, you will lose the chance. So big deal if she turns you down...you'll be a better person for taking the leap and I guarantee it won't be so hard next time and every time after that. The guys that take the risks are the guys that succeed the most. I'm not saying stalk her...but don't play games. You have no idea what's going through her mind and if you try to figure it out...it will mess you up, trust me. Just be confident, sincere and don't make a big deal out of it.
2007-04-20 06:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by Johnnie5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be careful. She prob sees u as a friend now. Ask her out for coffee on her break. See how she acts outside of work.
2007-04-20 06:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by Amy L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sees you as a predictable person plain and simple. You need to step up your game. When a girl says she's busy she means shes not interested. you can work your way around that one!
2007-04-20 06:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by ProFessa_Connartyst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with this one now since this is your third try you don't wanna blow it so make sure that u know that she is showing interest in you and then make your move but don't give up on her just make it perfect.
2007-04-20 07:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be cautious. You're pretty much in the friend zone. It probably isn't really a good idea.
2007-04-20 06:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Desperate Loser 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she would like to give it another try.
2007-04-20 06:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have to say that wat about buying her flowers or choclotes or even jewellary verygirl loves romantic things and romantic boyfriends and lads. keep on asking her out. if she says no then move on she dosnt like u. hope this helps.
2007-04-20 06:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by teri c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play hard to get, and she will most likely ask you out.
2007-04-20 06:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋