John* and I have been on and off for a while now. The first time we broke up was maybe 6 months ago. A fortnight or so after we broke up, we started getting close again. He would always say Hi, call my name and tap me on my shoulder and smile his beautiful smile. I couldnt help falling back in love with him.
After a month of this, he started to ignore me, and whenever I would look at him and ask a question, he would look away and give me extremely short answers, like he didnt want to talk to me. Then, next month, he would be nice and sweet and flirty again. The same month, he asked me out, and I accepted. During the time we were going out, he started being mean again. After one week, we were over..again. Then after 2 weeks or so, he started to text me, to instant message me thing like "ur so cute" etc etc. He would help me with my homework, and phone me at night.
A week after being nice to me. He started to ignore me agn. He would hug girls and flirt with them in front of me. Help!
2007-04-19 23:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wake up leady leave this man in the dirt where he belongs, he is doing this because he knows the minute he flashes that smile you go to him running and acept him with open arms, you are being a door mat to him for him and he is a flatterer and all flatterers live at the expense of those who listen to them. The minute you don't take any notice of him or his flirty comments he will notice you more, respect has to be earned and he aint earned anything by the sounds of it, if you respect yourself he may start respecting you but dont let him use and abuse you. there are plenty more fish in the sea
2007-04-19 23:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by smitters06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have a lot of feelings for this guy, don't you? But he just isn't the frustration and pain worth. He wants to have you all for himself but he don't want to be yours alone. He still want to flirt around and entertain other girls. He don't know what he want so don't you let him get you down. There's a lot of sweet and caring guys out there. It will be hard to get over this but in the end you'll look back and say "I've learned a lot off things and we had great times together, but that was then." Good luck.
2007-04-19 23:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will hate this answer, but it is the TRUTH. Its all part and parcel of growing up. We all go thru it, it sux at the time, but you learn from it, learn and mature into adult relationships, where the games still happen but you are better equiped to play them, due to the experiences you are having now. Cherish these "dramas" as they will set you in good stead for the future. Sorry I couldnt promise you all you wanted to hear!
2007-04-19 23:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! I can`t stand these type of guys! He sounds like he is an immature jerk and trying to lead you around on a string. Cut the string and run! Block off your instant messenger (change your screen name) and avoid him at all costs! Get him out of your system and make him stay out!
2007-04-19 23:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by Smiley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already answered this. It's the same response as now. Get off the roller coaster and find a more stable relationship. Your ex-lover is a friend at best. Don't try to get any closer.
2007-04-19 23:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can sometimes be very cruel and take a vengeance towards hurting others and this is not right.
In your case what I would do is ignore those bad tactics he does to hurt you. Let him know that no matter what he does, your not giving in and can't be hurt and then it will stop./
As long as he knows your hurting, he will continue this tactics.
Good Luck
Al
2007-04-19 23:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she faked astonishing, you bit & she ran left and scored against you. next time it incredibly is advisable to aim a blitz or an audible. Ask a soccer question - get a soccer answer...
2016-10-28 12:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt know what he wants and he is dragging you down with him. talk to him... ask him what he wants. tell him that u dont want any unsure answers and that if he cannot say with all certainity that he wants you then you are moving on. because its isnt healthy for you to stick around if he is just going to keep changeing his mind and messing with your emotions. if he doesnt know what he wants then u need to move on because he will only continue doing it. Good luck! =]
2007-04-19 23:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a player...
move on girl, it's not worth it...
not only him who can flirt around.. you too can...
rather than wasting your time with him, you can start to flirt with cute guys :-)
good luck
2007-04-19 23:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not ready to settle down, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you.
2007-04-19 23:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋