I develop a crush over someone I meet online, but never over anyone in real life. of course I keep my mouth shut becasue I feel like a real idiot.
If I can manage to get over the person, then like two weeks later I'm either falling for them again, or Someone else if I can last a few months.) plus It really screws with my head, becasue I can't never seem to stop thinking about whoever it is at the time.
-It's nothing to do with looks, becasue they never really bothered me. everyone I've met socially I find to be an asshole in some way.(-plus- I've never even seen their picture and don't really need to.)
-Don't tell me to go get laid, because I really don't feel the need to be aimlessly f*cking someone I know I don't actually like. It's never bothered me before.
So... Throw me some opinions, guys.
I don't even know these people and they're barely even considered online-friends.
2007-04-19 22:56:01 · 6 answers · asked by phyrdraka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably you like the idea of them, and the possibility of what could be with them. But the reason you like them is because you don't actually have a relationship with them, so there are no real problems to deal with. In real life relationships there are always problems, but on line it's kind of like a fantasy world.
2007-04-27 17:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Could be more that your falling in love with the expectations, or the fantasy of it. That when you meet these people you hope for them to do something, when they don't, you move on, keeping the fantasy as sort of a carrot in front of a horse. I've done some on-line dating and it should of follow'd a more natureal path that ended in some real-life meeting. Might mean you need to stop having expectations and try to develop more deep and meaningful relationships with them. Also try to develop friendship with them, friends can become lovers, but lovers rarly every become good friends.... but focus on just relating your story and understanding theirs and let the rest set in the background... you'd be surprised were it can go from there....
2007-04-20 05:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't actually have a crush on any of them.Maybe it's the unknown and the possibility that he could be "the one".
2007-04-27 12:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by christina30 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One should not be Coward . Have faith in your self and always have considerate opinion about others. Don't be bias also.
2007-04-27 22:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by baboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the tinge of anonymity that makes you attracted to people online. once they are demystified, things will be different.
2007-04-27 06:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by k1ngfischer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are thinking too much.
wake up!!!!!
2007-04-27 21:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by moonrider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋