Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

we had a long distance relationship(pple who think long distance relationship r waste of time, plz dont answer)... today morning, we were voice chatting and it was nite at his place(yes its far off...2 diff countries), and he told me he just came bak frm work and is really stresed out, i start talking bout film gossips and he told me twice that he doesnt want to talk bout it ( i realized that later), but i continued, then he shouted at me, but then while ending the converastion he was polite, but i wasnt, then he typed following

"him: we will talk over the weekend
soory for shouting at you
loves
muaaah

me: bye

him: sorry
muaah

me: u r not forgiven bye

him: muaaah"

well now one of part of me is saying i shud say sorry to him, and the other part is saying that let it be, i know he will make up for the things, say something sweet and i will b alright, but u think i shud say sorry to him for being rude,
note: i wud have shouted at him, he wud have been patient

2007-04-19 21:25:36 · 8 answers · asked by ria 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that I think I'm interested in and he works in this shop. I wanna talk to him, but I too shy and I have no idea what to say to him.... Please help! What do I say to him, and how do I overcome my shyness to talk to him?

2007-04-19 21:24:27 · 11 answers · asked by bubble wrapping 5 in Singles & Dating

My bf told me last night that sometimes he feels insecure and he loves me so much that he is afraid sometimes that I will meet someone else. I have told him a thousand times that wont happen however he was hurt badly in a previous relationship and thats why he thinks this will happen to him again. How can I convince him otherwise I have told him everything I can think of to convince him. Remember this is the same man who asked me to marry him after just 2 weeks together but I wont be bullied into that just to prove how much how I love him and wont leave him.

2007-04-19 21:23:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It was hidden from the spouse, and only revealed when caught.

2007-04-19 21:23:20 · 40 answers · asked by Barbara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you showed me a darker side of myself, more than i ever wished to know. Yet all i want is to see you smile again. Just see you smile. And see myself in your happiness. Hope you're having sweet dreams.

2007-04-19 21:22:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is always mean to my toys. what should i do??

2007-04-19 21:22:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do all guys think about sex alot, and how many times a day???

2007-04-19 21:16:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can a man really get the job done with a small one?

2007-04-19 21:16:19 · 6 answers · asked by izy966 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok This just happened ,, I just met a new collegue, and she was hot and totally hot, I heard before this that she is the loud confident type but that was not the case just now,, she was so hot and she was nervous, very queit and never even had an eye contact at me, i think she blushed a few times, and in return that made me nervous and im not ussually nervous around women, why the hell did i feel that way ? we just said short things avoiding eye contact,, dammit i hate it when i feel this way. but its a nice kinda hate,, i just hope she didnt notice it,, you guys think she did ? jeeezzzzzzzzzzzz

2007-04-19 21:13:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok it was about 2 dayz ago i found my best friend itz been 2 yearz since i seen her we talk about wat we been through and all the class matez we've seen...... i got no kidz she has one kid and her boyfriend had one too together they got two kidz anyway we came across feelings about one another i told her how i felt that i like her i had fun with her even when therez nothing to do i was there for her rain or shine and she told me the same... those feelings i had for her came back and we had a moment ..... she ask why we didnt date in school and after we grauated i told her i didnt know u felt dat way 4 me she said i was waiting 4 u 2 say something and ask me out all i said was.. i wanted to be friendz.... (i lied i didnt tell her because she has a boyfriend i had so much fellings for her dat i couldn't put it in words )ive love her should i tell her the truth or would it cause trouble between them?

2007-04-19 21:11:56 · 11 answers · asked by braxton d 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never cheated... why is she like that... any ideas?

2007-04-19 21:05:39 · 22 answers · asked by gamma23 2 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the why i think im a loser. i dont go out on the weekends to hang out with anybody but thats partly because theres no one to really kick it with in this neighborhood. I do have i a few friends that comes and kicks it with me at my house but thats once every 3 or 4 months that they do come. when i do go out on the weekend i go to the movies WITH MY MOM instead of friends. i do talk to people at school and hang out with a couple of dudes i know at lunch but i just sit there most of the time saying nothing. i tried starting a conversation on the topics i do know the best( video games) with my friend
marsellus but the only topic he would fully engage in is basketball which i dont find interesting. i i've sometimes been called popular but thats because maybe i hang out wth some of the popular kids and almost everybody knows my name but some of the dude i hang out with are not my "true" friends. I just hope that this is enough information to come up with a logical answer

2007-04-19 21:04:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know there are alot of women who do not "come" during s*x and i was one of them.

Ive seen alot of questions on here about it and id just thought id share with everyone that ive been trying sice i was 17 and im 22 now and last night i experienced my first one!!!!!

Cant wait to get home and see my boyfriend again tonight!!!!!!

How many people on here waited as long as me?

Thanks x

2007-04-19 21:02:46 · 8 answers · asked by Minstrel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 21:01:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

.. to fulfill her "hottie" status ?

2007-04-19 20:59:37 · 9 answers · asked by luigii 1 in Singles & Dating

6 months of her sticking her tounge down other peoples througt while i stayed home with her kids.trusting only made me vulnerable loving her caused me the pain.its been 2 months and she still haunts my dreams[awake and asleep].how do i forget or at least stop hurting.

2007-04-19 20:57:54 · 5 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been having some trouble.. I asked what would make him happy, he said children.. however he isn't sure he wants to have them with me.

The history on this, he had cancer which left him unable to produce children many years ago. I established a great career but have always longed for children. He is under the impression that I will not alter my work schedule to be good enough to have children. We haven't been able to really talk about this ...

On top of all of this - over the last year he has had two secret "friendships" with women who have children. One he followed through her pregnancy and another who he sees regularly and always text messages with. On both of them, he has continued to say they are only friends, nothing more.

I don't trust him at this point... many problems all lumped up into one.. I have reached a point now where I just don't know what to do!

Thanks

2007-04-19 20:50:31 · 10 answers · asked by Exausted.. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think its right for a husband when he's out of town for business trips to go "out" to bars, clubs, ect. I stay home with my little the last time I went out was to a concert twice he knew about me planning to go to these concerts and he uses that against me because I went out to a bar ONCE! On the other hand, he went to South Padre Island spring break with his divorced brother and his girlfriend and her friends without me this was another business trip he had in that area.Didn't call me untl 48hrs later!!! Now, he's in California and he's been going out every night. Doesn't feel the need to call me and is going out to bars. I talked to him about it but he sees no harm. Yet he doesn't think its right for me to go out. He pretty much wants his cake and eat it too. How would you feel? Do you think this is unfair in his all of the sudden "single life" when he's out of town? I think its disrespectful! What would you do or say? Any advice would help thanks

2007-04-19 20:47:26 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should we take his word for it when all evidence shows that he does love, or not?

2007-04-19 20:45:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am in secondary school and i have a tutor who is my cousin.she teaches me since i am very young.now,she is busy with her school work and no longer teaches me,i have no motivation to study by my own.i now almost failed all my tests.i cry everything when i think of her.although my parents want help me find another tutor,i dun wan cos i believe my last tutor is the best ever.Because of this,my parents scolded me for failing my tests and being lazy.i dun wan it to happen oso.Next,my friend told me that i have a bad attitide cos i always critisice ppl.i noe it is not nice to be critisiced by other ppl.but it seems that it has become a habit and i cant quit it.i really hope to change this attitude as i dun wan to end up wif no frends.Pls help me

2007-04-19 20:44:58 · 10 answers · asked by chiobu 1 in Friends

As you know, the weather has been kind to us lately and I decided to wear some flip flops, like many other young women I've seen with on my travels. When I saw my friend at the bus stop she laughed at me and pointed and said, "Look at your feet. I can't be bothered with that nonsense".
I'm so sensitive and of course I was, once again, offended. What on earth did I do that was so wrong? I've been cursed with a sensitive nature I'm afraid.

2007-04-19 20:41:53 · 30 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Friends

how to undress clueless bride

2007-04-19 20:40:27 · 16 answers · asked by zahid a 1 in Weddings

C'mon people,we attach so much importance to sex and thats why it's a source of so much strife.A man will cheat coz he thinks his wife is boring in Bed,a woman will complain if he is not performing etc....i mean there are other things such as........ COMPANIONSHIP?

2007-04-19 20:40:04 · 19 answers · asked by sparrow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 20:38:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we dated for two years and we have had our fare share of ups and downs. there has been about 6 other girls that he has either kissed, had sex with, or told me he loved during our relationship but yet i still care. we broke up about a month ago and he went around calling me a whore. now (as of 2 days ago) he started to be really nice again and he says he loves me and wants to be with me again but is thinking about it first. I dont know what to say to him. I love him but cant handle the way he treats me. I want to and dont want to date him again. does he really care or is he just trying to control me or wanting sex or something? please give me your thoughts. im going for lunch with him tomorrow so please hurry? I dont know what to do! I dont really beleive he loves me like he says he does.. but he did date me for 2 years.. HELP PLEASE! i dont know what to tell him

2007-04-19 20:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello ppl need help what does it mean when a married man is caught emailing other girls... saying to those girls that he wana take them out n wana travel with them to other countries. but he says that i'ts only email thing n he met them on the net ... it means nothing... what u guys think?

2007-04-19 20:34:29 · 17 answers · asked by moshak 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I just got married last month. I have only visited with his parents a few times, and spent a week with them the week before our vows. I love his dad, his sister and brother, and his cousins, but his mother (who is actually his step-mother) just seems awfully distant. My family was practically giddy when they heard about the engagement AND the marriage, and his mom is just kinda like, "ok.... so you got married..... alright, well nice talking to you, we'll see you soon". What the hell? I've never been mean or given her a reason to think I'm a bad candidate for a wife. But I feel like this is just the beginning, and I'll be fighting for her approval forever. What can I do, or why is she acting this way? Any advice would help, or if you've had a similar situation, please let me know!

God bless mother-in-laws! :-P

2007-04-19 20:27:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We married three years ago. now its over. She is a bookkeeper and Notary Public, I ran restaurants. We made 100k last year. She served me divorce papers and has taken my name off ALL documents, insurance, bank accounts, homeowners insurance, etc. Also has gotten a restrainging order against me. She also has moved god knows what else pertaining to legal documents to her mothers house. Her father, A millionare, has retained her lawyer. Me..I am not able to go to my home, I have no money because she moved it all. I made 75k myself last year, and she was the "bill payer" Now I am living on my buddys couch. I am borrowing money from him for gas, etc. I found out today she has 3 savings accounts, and 2 checking. I never knew. I have been basically thrown out of my own home without a penny. She has total control. I have called lawyers, but they want money. I tell them the story and they say, call us when you have some funds. She also did not claim all her income on our taxes.

2007-04-19 20:23:50 · 4 answers · asked by Paybackisamofo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There’s a guy that goes to my school… and has liked me for 5 months..
I liked him too.. We say I love you and stuff to each other..

He hasn’t asked me out.. i think that i should just cut it off and stop things.. because if he asked me out .. i know in my heart i would say no.. because he only really talks to me on msn and we do talk face 2 face.. but it gets awkward like he doesn’t say much and i have to think of things to say to keep the convo going.. Also he is really negative about everything and he's insecure.. Not very open. Am I right in being worried?

I love him. I really do.. that’s why im hurting right now… but should I end things with him? What if he thinks that ive been leading him on… cos I havent.. I still do love him but im stopping things before it escalates im afraid after time things wont be so great.. I’ll be miserable.. My previous boyfriends were exactly like him, i was so unhappy. I thought he was different.. But no.. what do I do? Am I just being picky?

2007-04-19 20:20:16 · 5 answers · asked by tikitakshack 2 in Singles & Dating

and how to be confident and how to develop that

2007-04-19 20:05:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships