There's this guy that I think I'm interested in and he works in this shop. I wanna talk to him, but I too shy and I have no idea what to say to him.... Please help! What do I say to him, and how do I overcome my shyness to talk to him?
2007-04-19 21:24:27 · 11 answers · asked by bubble wrapping 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Come in the store and leave him your number with your name and a nice smile and tell him eactly this while your smiling at him say "hey i think your cute and this is my number so hit me up if you wana talk" and then simply turn around walk out the shop dont look back just keep walking out and youll be happy u did .
2007-04-19 21:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ale 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u cud start with small things like say- something in the shop, asking for his comments, etc n then may b when u r just lookin at other things or when he's helping u 2 carry the stuff u bought 2 the billing counter ask him if he's seen any recent movies, n if u also hv seen it then share ur comments or if u hvent seen the movie then ask him wat it was all about. start small n u'll come out just fine but if u r still 2 shy then pretend talking 2 him while standing in frount of the mirror, do this till the time u fell confident enough 2 talk 2 him but dont wait 2 long in case some1 else comes fwd before u!
all the best!
2007-04-20 04:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by bhavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go in there more often and walk around, buy something (unless it's a hardware shop....you won't be able to keep that up for long). Smile at him, not creepy, but just a nice warm smile and say hi. Just be pleasant and friendly and open, so he feels comfortable. If you are approachable yourself, he may reciprocate.
But often most of us are rather shy and don't tend to open up. Just go in there sometimes, not like daily, but enough. When you feel comfortable enough, ask him about something in the shop that you're going to buy or ask his opinion.
Above all, be friendly and open and hey, if things don't eventuate, nothing lost at all. It's all part of growing and learning and becoming more confident in life. You get better at it the more you do it.
Dont push yourself too much, just slowly and gently.
2007-04-20 04:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by adam_antics34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are real worried and afraid to talk to him because you like him so much? If you are usually a friendly type person just rehearse something and go in and talk to him. If you are a shy person then practice on other people first, so you break into your approach with a bit of experience.
If I was to approach someone I really really liked I would do it in small doses but frequently. when you are ready (and confident enough) just smile at him and say something like "so are you busy today" or just small talk like "what a beautiful day it is outside, or how is this rain?" you get my drift. After you have had a few casual, general conversations with him, he will remember you and you will get a feeling of either he likes you or he doesnt.... if he does and you get confident enough go into questioning him about his personal life, Im sure once you ask "so where is your girlfriend today" or " do you have someone special in your life" he will completely understand your intentions and should be directing the conversation the way he wants things to go.
Good on you for making the first step and asking advise here, if you really like someone, no matter who you are or who they are, you owe it to yourself to try and get to know them better..... then if things go well, then its like magic - you have your best result, you believed in your instincts and you deserve to be with that person; or if they dont go how you planned, dont worry because atleast you wont regret not trying, and feel comfort in the knowledge that they are not the right person for you and there is someone even better waiting for you.
Good luck, be strong and brave and Im sure if he likes you, it will be the best thing.
2007-04-20 04:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by gudsport 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Cottonca, Love your name. Back to the question.You just have to go up to him and ask him if he would like to go get a drink after work. Forget about your shyness and do it. That's the only way you will get to see if he is interested in you.This is a good way to get to know him and for him about you. You may be surprised on the out come. Have fun and be yourself. LOL.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-04-20 04:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok what type of shop is it?? if u can use that as a help factor, to ask questions, what its about how long he has been working there what he does in his spare time etc.
but first do the basic thing of saying:" hi", "how are u??"
2007-04-20 04:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not buy something from the shop?
or ask him his opinion about something in the shop??
dont worry about being shy...
you'll always regret it if you dont give it a chance
2007-04-20 04:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him your phone number in private at the water cooler, if you think you'd do better on the phone than in person at first.
2007-04-20 04:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go into his shop and ask for something (Even if you don't want it) and get chatting from there
2007-04-20 04:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by MrsMatsuyama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pretend hes just another guy and talk to him as if he was ur friend....yea i know, just PRETEND that for a sec. the more you think about it the harder its gona be. dont think, jus walk up to him n say "hi" or "watsup?" or w/e u say when u talk to ppl
2007-04-20 04:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by saeuta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋