My bf told me last night that sometimes he feels insecure and he loves me so much that he is afraid sometimes that I will meet someone else. I have told him a thousand times that wont happen however he was hurt badly in a previous relationship and thats why he thinks this will happen to him again. How can I convince him otherwise I have told him everything I can think of to convince him. Remember this is the same man who asked me to marry him after just 2 weeks together but I wont be bullied into that just to prove how much how I love him and wont leave him.
2007-04-19 21:23:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Buy a pair of hand cuffs.
2007-04-19 21:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by blueridgemotors 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man with insecurity is a nuisance as he will rely on you, if he just cannot get over a earlier relationship after your assurance than I suggest you review your relationship seriously as it has signs of weakness.
We can never assure anything as there is fate and what will happen will happen.
So tell him to shape up and both of you settle down or ship him out and go to the sea for the next ship.
2007-04-20 04:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Freakout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.
It is his problem and not yours. He has to understand that. He has to recognise that. He has to deal with it.
If he doesn't acknowledge it then I think your relationship has a serious problem. Any relationship he is in will have the same problem. An example of that is the proposal. Beware of any jealous, controlling behaviour.
Remember any relationship is based on mutual trust. Why did the other relationship fail? Was it due to his insecurities? Talk to him and help him through his problem, get professional help if needed.
This problem will need to be fixed if the relationship is going to develop further.
2007-04-20 04:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by ktrna69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, you say will prove anything. Nail yourself to the kitchen floor won't prove anything. Buy some pt leather pumps, fishnet with a bead, and a vinyl skirt, and a red top of some kind which is skin tight, and ties at the breast line. He'll never leave. It works great, try it;.
2007-04-20 04:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is really anything you can say. It's more a matter of time and trust. He is obviously still hurting and it will be hard for him to trust anyone again. My advice is to just to wait and he will eventually come to trust you. I know this will seem really frustrating, but I really don't think there is anything you can do other than hope that one day, he will come to trust you.
2007-04-20 04:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Show him that you wont leave him.
2007-04-20 04:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by bubble wrapping 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs counseling. He's a bull in a china shop and needs to get ahold of his feelings.
2007-04-20 04:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Words must be accompanied by actions..
2007-04-20 04:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by PaZ KarL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋