we dated for two years and we have had our fare share of ups and downs. there has been about 6 other girls that he has either kissed, had sex with, or told me he loved during our relationship but yet i still care. we broke up about a month ago and he went around calling me a whore. now (as of 2 days ago) he started to be really nice again and he says he loves me and wants to be with me again but is thinking about it first. I dont know what to say to him. I love him but cant handle the way he treats me. I want to and dont want to date him again. does he really care or is he just trying to control me or wanting sex or something? please give me your thoughts. im going for lunch with him tomorrow so please hurry? I dont know what to do! I dont really beleive he loves me like he says he does.. but he did date me for 2 years.. HELP PLEASE! i dont know what to tell him
2007-04-19 20:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just, and I quote from your passage, "trying to control (you) or wanting sex or something". You got it right. The two years should not make a lifetime of yelling and abuse. Go a new direction.
2007-04-19 20:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize this isn't love, at least not from him so it is one sided. You also need to learn from this mistake and realize you do deserve better and can have it. Learn to love yourself more and someone will come along and love you for you, truly no other women and no hate filled remarks. No one deserves to be treated like that, not when they can and do deserve so much more.
-NmD!
2007-04-19 20:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! dont go out with him. from your story, he is a complete jerk. he treated you like dirt. i know you love him but dont let him know that anymore. dont always be available to him whenever he needs or wants to be with you. yes, he may be sweet or act as if he cares??? but for how long..if he wants to date another girl again, he will again leave you and it will hurt you again.
dont let him do this to you. love yourself and save yourself for someone worthy of your time and love.
2007-04-19 20:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by darryl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez,if a guy respect you that much he shouldnt call you a whore.And please wake up and put some respect to yourself also guy like that is not worth for your love.Stop seeing him and try to entertain other guys so you will have a point of comparison and you will see, you will find a better one.
2007-04-19 22:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look he just wants to keep you in his back pocket and do what he wants then when all is said and done he has you to fall back on but you have to do what you feel is right and what makes you happy
2007-04-19 20:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by c.c. c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋