There’s a guy that goes to my school… and has liked me for 5 months..
I liked him too.. We say I love you and stuff to each other..
He hasn’t asked me out.. i think that i should just cut it off and stop things.. because if he asked me out .. i know in my heart i would say no.. because he only really talks to me on msn and we do talk face 2 face.. but it gets awkward like he doesn’t say much and i have to think of things to say to keep the convo going.. Also he is really negative about everything and he's insecure.. Not very open. Am I right in being worried?
I love him. I really do.. that’s why im hurting right now… but should I end things with him? What if he thinks that ive been leading him on… cos I havent.. I still do love him but im stopping things before it escalates im afraid after time things wont be so great.. I’ll be miserable.. My previous boyfriends were exactly like him, i was so unhappy. I thought he was different.. But no.. what do I do? Am I just being picky?
2007-04-19 20:20:16 · 5 answers · asked by tikitakshack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is also in my circle of friends...
im so freaking confused.
i dunno help
if i end it
theres no chance of being friends or ever having a second chance..
trust me..
2007-04-19 20:22:16 · update #1
To be honest with you. I don't think you really love him. You may really like him a bunch but you don't love him. Love is a term that means with faults. If you like someone a bunch and can look past the faults they have and still be willing to work with them through the hard times, then you can say you love someone.
You want to get away and drop the relationship because you don't want to deal with him later. I agree, you should leave, because you don't love him. You just like him a bunch. You will find someone else. Staying with someone just because you won't be able to keep each other as friends is not whats important. What is important is your happiness. If you are unhappy fix the problem. Dump the dude and move on. I promise you won't regret it.
2007-04-19 20:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rumin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time for you to take the lead. Ask him why he feels so awkward when the two of you see each other in person. Tell him that you are getting bad vibes from him. Tell him that you have experienced this negativity before, and that you can not be happy with someone that is always negative about everything. Tell him that you think that he is a nice person, but you think that it would be best if you remained friends.
2007-04-20 03:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let time take the decision for you , don't worry you are too young to have a boyfriend so just chill and enjoy, in the mean while if he comes to u u feel good go around else say good bye. u don't have to take it so seriously at the intial stage, once two people fin dthey are perfect for each other- (that they can find out only after going around with each other for some time) they start thinking of each other seriously , till then take a chill pill don't trouvle urself so uch unneccesarily
2007-04-20 03:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Rita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell u'r still young. If ur Mr Right has not arrival, try having more guy frens instead of BFs. U can feel much more easy & protect from them.
2007-04-20 03:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay... umm end it
2007-04-20 03:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋