Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

Everything has been goin good wit me n 1 of my guy friends, we hook up when we c each other n hav a really good time... everything was cool until last weekend when we were a a friends place n i was talkin to his lil bro( the whole convo was bout him)- but i heard from my friend that when i was talkin to his bro he walked past jus lookin at us.... but know when i try to talk to him he isnt da same.. he says nothin is wrong but i know there is... does he have the shits??? i msg'd him hinting i wanted to meet up after i finished wat i was doin & he was lik "have fun, talk soon"-i asked if it was coz i was talkin to his bro n i got no response.. wat is he thinkin??? my friend said that it did look bad, me talkin to his lil bro, she said it looked lik he was tryin to hook up wit me

2007-04-19 18:03:57 · 2 answers · asked by Lozza J 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a reputation for being a big, arrogant jerk at school. There's a girl whom I have been madly in a love with for a while. We barely ever spoke, except for sometimes she said "hi (my name)" in the hallways.

A few months ago, we started up a conversation in a class of mine. One of her friends started teasing her for 'flirting' with me, and ever since then, she's been rotten to me.

Even though I am a pretty huge jerk, I wasn't like that to her. But ever since she started behaving this way, I just couldn't help but pick on her like I do everyone else...

In my cooking class, we were paired together. After 2 days, she personally requested to be switched into another group. Until this happened, I thought that maybe she did like me. I fear that if she once did, I've driven her away.

I've never gone out with a girl before, and she's the first girl that I've ever loved, and I don't want to ruin my chances with her. How can I fix this?

2007-04-19 18:03:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i loves my boyfriend and i love my sons but they are grown children.i"not going to be forces to chose between them. but dont you think i deserve to be happy to?what do you think?it making my boy friend un comfortable.

2007-04-19 17:58:20 · 19 answers · asked by georgia j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I have posted here a few times about suspectiing my boyfriend to be cheating on me and guess what? I was right. He took out a girl on a date to the movies and had sex with her in his car after. He admitted he wanted play and said she looked like an easy hoe. Funny part is all her friends got a hold of her number and called me telling me what happened. Of course I broke up with the useless, dirty, lying fat cheater. It's been a week and I've been pretty bipolar trying to cope. There are days when I am in his arms and days when I ignore him to the point of him getting mad and sometimes crying. Ladies and gentlemen, I am not asking for sympathy, I'm asking for help. This was my first love, my first relationship, and my first break up. He threw away a year and a half away on his back seat. I just want some advice because I don't know what to do or how to deal. This is all new to me. Thanks.

2007-04-19 17:48:30 · 1 answers · asked by JuicyPiink 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 17:46:55 · 15 answers · asked by pigsblood 1 in Singles & Dating

I've run into this before, but at particular question caused me to ask this. Basically it had something to do with cheating and theri best answer was pretty much a short very simplistic agreement with them. Maybe it's the age of some of the people, or just the ignorance; but really there is no reason to ask a question if all you want to do is reaffirm your views. This I think, is indicative of the majority in our country who want to go through life blind and ignorant.

2007-04-19 17:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by Carl J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am planning on becomeing more intimate with my boy friend.... i dont want to be blunt and ask him if he has protection... do i assume he has it or how do i ask him or give him hints or what???

2007-04-19 17:44:26 · 6 answers · asked by lovinlifeandhim7 1 in Singles & Dating

but, it's happening to me.

2007-04-19 17:43:34 · 5 answers · asked by infocruiser 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm in juniorhigh and i flirt with this guy...my friend likes him too, but he doesn't like her...also, she makes fun of me cause i like him. I went and wanted to talk to him and private to tell him i like him, and he was so rude he said" you were flashing ur shirt for me today" and i got so embarrased( i didn't!)but, he still pokes me, and smiles, and talks etc. should i keep trying?

2007-04-19 17:38:03 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ MEOW ♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I really like I am really shy but used to talk to him on a regular basis growing up from like 12-15. I had no problem. I think it's cause the crush wasn't fully there. And I was a complete idiot at that time. Now I have a bigger crush on him. I was able to talk to him abit last weekend. But was basically freaking out but was able not to show it. Basic hi how are you and whats up was exchanged. He was very soft spoken and made alittle eye contact and seemed actually surprised that I had spoken to him and acknowledged his name. He had a cute little laugh. He was fidgeting a bit with something. He always smiles and waves. When he sees me. He's really cute got beautiful eyes and smile. Nice body.
I'm not a teenager or in high school. For that matter. I am almost 21. And have never really talked a guy I liked before (Protective Father at the time, long gone) It appears we both are shy. So what would you recommend???

2007-04-19 17:35:12 · 8 answers · asked by Wait For You 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, just need opinions. Do you obsess over whether or not ou should call when you like someone? Like if you are just dating, going out, or seeing some girl/guy will you try to make sure not to call too much?

My friend likes this guy, they are dating but not exclusive yet so she never knows what to do. I can't help much cuz i am heartbroken and kind of hating guys now. (sorry,not all guys)

Last time she saw him they argued a bit. (about a stupid movie) but he got all sucky! Anyway, they were kind of fine after that. Now she is nervous about calling him. He hasn't texted her all week, he didn't talk to her on msn either. But they had just spent so much time together he might have needed a break.(talked 6days in a row) she had planned to call him tonight, to give him her new # cuz she's been using her moms phone. BUT she didn't get a chance to call (at work)
Should she call tomorrow and leave a message? or what? how not to look clingy?

2007-04-19 17:33:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want all those who have completed or going to complete twenty five years of their marriage, how they fell now? Do you still have the same love & feelings for your spouse or things have faded with these twenty five or more years together? Are you still looking for more to come for you two or want to retire now? How these twenty five years or more spent between you two were, full of responsibilities for kids & now you feel relived from these responsibilities? Enjoy the company of each other still or are bored with each other now? Share your thoughts with me as I complete my twenty five years of marriage on 23rd of this month. One thing more for the Indian Astrologers who believe marriage between Mangalik & non mangalik is not auspicious, mine was such a case but no harm came to my life being non mangalik myself married to a mangalik lady for twenty five years. Now what your astrology say about this?

2007-04-19 17:30:53 · 19 answers · asked by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Thanks for your help :)

2007-04-19 17:28:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want all those who have completed or going to complete twenty five years of their marriage, how they fell now? Do you still have the same love & feelings for your spouse or things have faded with these twenty five or more years together? Are you still looking for more to come for you two or want to retire now? How these twenty five years or more spent between you two were, full of responsibilities for kids & now you feel relived from these responsibilities? Enjoy the company of each other still or are bored with each other now? Share your thoughts with me as I complete my twenty five years of marriage on 23rd of this month. One thing more for the Indian Astrologers who believe marriage between Mangalik & non mangalik is not auspicious, mine was such a case but no harm came to my life being non mangalik myself married to a mangalik lady for twenty five years. Now what your astrology say about this?

2007-04-19 17:19:57 · 4 answers · asked by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 in Marriage & Divorce

We slept together. The next morning it's like she WANTED to wear my clothes. We were getting ready to go out to breakfeast, and she told me she didn't want to get dressed up.

She wore my Shirt, Hat, Pants, and was so happy.

When a girl wants to wear your clothes: Does it mean anything special or something? Just wondering.

2007-04-19 17:19:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Of course you'll say yes, but i need resons.I really lik this girl in som of my classes, and i wanna ask her to a dance. But i was wondering if its worth it because after asking a few of my close friends, they said they used to lik her and i can nam at least one person who currently does. now obviously, i concluded that a lot of guys i dont kno lik her and she was probably a mor popular person. b4 concluding this i asked one of my friends who knew her and another who doesnt if they think i should ask her out. they said yes, but the one that knew her said that she knew wat shed probably say. then i saw her cover her mouth(very poorly i might ad) and mouth out "no". now this sunk my spirits very low and im wondering if i should even consider asking her to the dance. she knos me a little, but not very much. wat do u think?

2007-04-19 17:14:23 · 6 answers · asked by pyro_maniac_darkfire 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex is trying to force me to be friends with him, i have told him i dont want to but he wont give up. why is he doing this? i have moved on and im happy.

2007-04-19 17:13:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so there is a girl i am thinking of asking to the school dance. I like her and we talk a lot, but the thing is my friend, not great mind you, but friend went out with her last week, and my other friend, not great, liked her and almost asked her out a few weeks ago. now people are saying i should ask her but i dont know if that would hurt my friends. What should i do?

2007-04-19 17:11:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Before I asked this woman out on a date, we talked on the phone several times. We always laugh and joke around. She wants to go to the movies on our 1st date. But I want it to be special. Any single women have any ideas, what their ideal 1st date would be? Also, I want to buy a new cologne but don't know what cologne women love, the last one I bought was Issey Miyake (?spelling)

2007-04-19 17:06:29 · 5 answers · asked by Kekoa 1 in Singles & Dating

My best guy friend has been acting weird towards me for the past two weeks and its because he use to like me. He told me that now that i knew thing should be less awkward but when i hung out with him today they werent! I told him i felt that he wasnt being himself and ignoring me, he said "im sorry" but in an awkawrd voice.

I told him i feel like are friendship is ending so im putting a stop to it, he seemed shocked but said if thats how you want it fine so i turned around and walked away.

I feel so dumb and i want to say im sorry, but i feel as if ive done nothing wrong, and that he should be the one saying sorry to me.

what should i do ?!

2007-04-19 17:05:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When they get married? They become a 'so and so's wife' or 'so and so's mom'. Their whole idenity is dependent on the marriage and they lose any separate idenity they once had. This doen't seem to happen to men as much. Do you think this a is a reason more men cheat than women?

2007-04-19 17:00:05 · 29 answers · asked by mimi s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im not g@y, im stright but I dont want to get a girl before college I want a girl 4years after my graduation at college.

How can I look away from hot girls, showing off their sexy parts?

I want to focus on schooling right now not girls yet...

2007-04-19 16:53:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-19 16:51:31 · 14 answers · asked by Max 7 in Singles & Dating

I've been really intersted in this guy that I perform with in a choir here at the college I go to. The problem is that i really want to get to know him better, but there's not a whole lot around here to ask him to casually hang out or do something. How can I get to know him better one on one when there's nothing to do around my college?

2007-04-19 16:49:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where was your first kiss? Was it perfect or would you have preferred it to be somewhere else? Where? Just a survey that some people might find interesting and some who won't. Can't please 'em all.

2007-04-19 16:46:52 · 18 answers · asked by Stormy110 1 in Singles & Dating

was talking to this guy, we've been talking for a few months now, and I ask him flat out,if there is he interested in anyone at the current moment more than a friens, he said yes, and it wasn't me. he also went on to say that "he's sorry but he can't say that he likes me more than a friend" because he doesn't see me in "that " way but told me that I was good looking and cool, but only want's e as a friend.my question is is there a such thing as men finding a woman attractive and only seeing her as a friend? And what would you do if you were in my situation?

2007-04-19 16:45:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a friend who I think I like...but Im not sure if he likes me back....he is kinda flirty with me......like hell only go somewhere with me and always laughs at my jokes.....help

2007-04-19 16:43:38 · 8 answers · asked by chelsea_edward 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy is constantly playing with my emotions, Its complicated. please see my profile question " I'm obsessed, I need advice"

2007-04-19 16:42:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is trying to find out if her supposed ex- hubby really signed the divorce papers. She never recieved a copy of them, and has no way to contact her ex. Any suggestions on where I can locate them?

2007-04-19 16:40:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so me and one of my really good guy friends were talking and like im 5'0 and hes 6'2. and we were talking about this guy i use to like who broke my heart and he tried to figure out who it was. and i use to like this guy who's 6'0 and my friend started making fun of me...cuz hes like no guy would go out with you! you and a tall guy wouldnt go well together..i mean i know im short! and i know i like tall guys! but WTF? he didnt have to put it like that....it really hurts..cuz i wish i were tall but im not and its not my fault...if i could help it i would. but do you all think he's right???????????????

2007-04-19 16:37:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships