This guy is constantly playing with my emotions, Its complicated. please see my profile question " I'm obsessed, I need advice"
2007-04-19 16:42:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He manipulates you because you let him. Sorry.
2007-04-19 16:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Max 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have read all your questions about this guy ..
IT seems your both playing games with each other to a certain extent .
And you definitely are obsessed ..
What would you tell someone else who was asking this question ?
It seems to me when you ignore him , he pays attention to you , and when he ignores you , you pay attention to him ? You both go around in circles ..
I am not sure how I would handle this with out knowing him .. but from what you have said , he is not sure what he wants either ..
But you have turned him down several times , instead of doing that why didn't you suggest an alternative , and explain that you don't like dancing ?
The next time he is in his " Jone " mood " sit him down and have a heart to heart with him , if he responds to this well then take it from there but before you do .. figure out what you want first ..do you want to see him ? ....
You keep mentioning that you have a crush on him ... do you think it could go further ? you have to ask yourself these questions with out pride or ego getting in the way ..
again talk to him , I don't think you two know much about eachother .
Is there anyone else you have a crush on ?
It takes more than a crush to have a good relationship ... are you looking for a realtionship with him ?
again pretend this is being asked by someone you don't know ...how would you answer them ?
You said you don't trust him .what has he done to make you feel that way or are you protecting yourself ..you know people sense things like that .. so open up and talk things out with him .. and be prepared for the consequenses .. it may not work out .. and then again it might .. only the 2 of you can answer that ..
and if you still have hesitation over this then quit tourturing yourself over this and get on with your life .. 3 years is a long time to sit around wondering .....
the balls in your court ....
2007-04-20 06:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by myopinionforwhatitsworth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I understand your situation completely. My boyfriend and I just broke up after 2 years of dating on-and-off and it was probably the best thing that's happened to me. If you feel that he is playing with your emotions I think that you should sit him down and have a serious talk with him and determine where feelings lie between the two of you and if you don't think that things will work out, then it would probably be best to remain as just friends. I hope this helps some. Best of Luck.
2007-04-19 16:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by hahtnamas 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have the need to be with someone that you would have told your bestfriend to drop. You see the red flag and are intelligent... the sex must be good but he is bad.. get a vibrator or a hobby and get free of this guy... now..
2007-04-27 16:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by flame57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can You live that way? are You happy? are You suffering Cus that.?
take some considerations.
but the most important,(movie question,Titanic)Do You Love Him?
check this other question ,(take a seat) Does He Really Love You?
2007-04-27 10:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. Pretend that you dont care about his game by ignoring him. you will see him shaking in his booths. Its basically psychological bullying. And the best way to beat a bully is to psych him out.
2007-04-19 17:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by African 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
new relationships shouldn't be that complicated. it's time to find another object of your affection.
2007-04-20 12:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by mesquitemachine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun don;t worry.. first does he no that u are getting emotinal about it?? then don't show it if he does.... but liet him no that u care
2007-04-27 09:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋