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Of course you'll say yes, but i need resons.I really lik this girl in som of my classes, and i wanna ask her to a dance. But i was wondering if its worth it because after asking a few of my close friends, they said they used to lik her and i can nam at least one person who currently does. now obviously, i concluded that a lot of guys i dont kno lik her and she was probably a mor popular person. b4 concluding this i asked one of my friends who knew her and another who doesnt if they think i should ask her out. they said yes, but the one that knew her said that she knew wat shed probably say. then i saw her cover her mouth(very poorly i might ad) and mouth out "no". now this sunk my spirits very low and im wondering if i should even consider asking her to the dance. she knos me a little, but not very much. wat do u think?

2007-04-19 17:14:23 · 6 answers · asked by pyro_maniac_darkfire 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

the girl that mouthed is just her semifriend but she promised not to tell the girl i like

2007-04-19 17:25:06 · update #1

6 answers

If you really feel inclined to ask her, then go for it. If she says no in a mean way, she wasn't worth it anyways. Does she know that you want to ask her? If she does and she was mouthing no and you saw it, that's pretty low for a girl to do. From personal experience, if a guy asks me and he's pretty nice, I'll at least go with him as friends. I'll repeat this again, if she is mean to you, it's not worth it, move on. You'll be happier in the end.

2007-04-19 17:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by love 5 · 0 0

the covering of mouth you may have seen correctly, but you may have seen it wrong... i recently told somebody that I liked them, at 19 years old, never told any girl that... and I have never felt so better. I say ask her to that dance. It doesn't matter if she says no, she will know how you feel about her, and that may pay off in the end. Always ask nicely, and accept any answer she may give you. Be prepared for yes and no, and don't let it get to you if she says no. You will feel a lot better in the end. The decision is yours, only follow through if you think you can, but you'll never know until you try. =D good luck of course =D

2007-04-19 17:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You seem to be afraid of asking her out. Rightfully so those females hunt in packs! Try gathering some information first it makes no sence attacking the beast head on without the basics in how to handle it.

Either strike up a convo and see how she reacts to you (perhaps get to know her a bit better) or send in some friends to scout it out (dont get them to ask the question directly, just beat around the bush).

There is no guarentee that the information gained by your friends is accurate tho, due to her possibly lying to avoid embarresment so just try and read it off her body language.

Best of luck, hope you can come out on top, either that or go for a better one :)

2007-04-19 17:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0 0

Why the hell not? Really, when it comes to things like this, just freaking do it. Ok, I hate to be graphic here, but imagine you went through a horrific accident and almost died, you come away with that "f--- it, I'm living life!" realization and you really do realize that life is just to f--ing short to debate these things. Just freakin do it. If she says no, then she says no. ANd have other girls you might ask , too.

2007-04-19 17:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by sgregory1522 3 · 0 0

Do you really have much to lose? They say that in the end you'll regret what you didn't do, not what you did do. Easier said than done, but why not go for it?

2007-04-19 17:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just follow what your heart says....Never mind asking other people it will be more confusing

2007-04-19 17:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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