Twenty five years together still going strong or feeling tired?

Question

I want all those who have completed or going to complete twenty five years of their marriage, how they fell now? Do you still have the same love & feelings for your spouse or things have faded with these twenty five or more years together? Are you still looking for more to come for you two or want to retire now? How these twenty five years or more spent between you two were, full of responsibilities for kids & now you feel relived from these responsibilities? Enjoy the company of each other still or are bored with each other now? Share your thoughts with me as I complete my twenty five years of marriage on 23rd of this month. One thing more for the Indian Astrologers who believe marriage between Mangalik & non mangalik is not auspicious, mine was such a case but no harm came to my life being non mangalik myself married to a mangalik lady for twenty five years. Now what your astrology say about this?

I'm really getting wonderful replies & will make very difficult for me to choose the best one out of these.

Answer 1

I have seen couples celebrating golden jubilee of their married life and even diamond jubilee. They seem to be doing well. No body can claim to have had a smooth sailing in life as husband and wife. If any body says that it has been completely a cake walk then it is a lie. Differences do crop up time to time. It is just that as they get along they develop some kind of tacit understanding and level of tolerance also rises with time. If for some reason the level of tolerance declines then it leads to separation and divorce.
Remember that just because you got along for 25 years does not guarantee that it will be smooth for the rest of life.
At this age you are couched and buffered by younger generation, that is by having grandchildren who often take your time and rescue you from unwarranted fight that would have taken place. At this age your attention is diverted to the welfare of your sons and daughters and their kids. You forget your personal discomfiture and sourness that reside below the surface.

Answer 2

I have been married for almost 21 years. My husband is just wonderful. I love him more every year. No it hasn't been a fairy tail, we have 2 girls- both in college now. Finally we have started enjoying each other on a new level. We go to dinner and look into each others eyes, and listen to what's on each others mind. (without interruptions!). We don't call each other 50 times a day. We are comfortable and have a level of trust so there is no need.

The best part about staying with the same person all these years is how you get to know each other so well- you know when it's been a bad day by the position of his shoulders. He knows without asking which nights you'd rather he rub your back and skip the sex.

I wish you the best on your 25th- hopefully you have special plans made- We are planning an African Safari for our 25th!!

Answer 3

Immediately after marriage,every body got a deep and blind love towards their wives.When the commitments started then the love becomes irritation.After having children,the irritation gets multiplied and we have doubt about the marriage.But when we go out with our wife and children the response from the society is different which is a strong medicine for our irritation and we will become proud of our children that is our own products.Then a thanks will come to our mind towards our wife who have birth for this wonderful kids and ultimately we will start looking the best from the wives.Then the commitments towards our children will be shared by both and the family life looks beautiful.The above things will take at least 10 to 15 yrs to happen.If we cross 25 yrs by God's grace then we will be in heaven.I think you are now in heaven and I wish you a wealthy and healthy long life for you and your family.

Answer 4

1) You shouldn't really bother about the way others live, as your love and life are privately very much yours, in the sense if you could feel that you and your wife are made for each other .That's it and nothing can alter it.I
f there is mental and intellectual compatibility between the partners, then the physics and chemistry will follow automatically.You have to fine tune your life and living then and there and no need look out of the window for anything.
Between you two, right is wrong and wrong is right and who can question about it?
Wish a happy Siner jubilee year of your marriage and wish you many more happy years of togetherness with happiness.

Answer 5

I am not yet in the silver jubilee of the marriage. But, I am still in the thick of serious marital relations. It has not been a path of roses, but not full of thorns all through. It was sweet at times and sours some times. The best part is the time you spend with the children, the responsibility in rearing them and the satisfaction that you gain in seeing their growth in the right direction.

Answer 6

wow, fairly the run mutually! I wont say plenty, my spouse and that i've got purely been mutually for 18 years and my youngsters are 20yo, 17yo, 16yo. and 9. its been amazing to have raised my babies and to have my spouse by my area, we specific have had our united statesand downs and now that the youngsters , different than for the child, arent around as plenty and dont choose as plenty i come across that my spouse and that i've got so plenty greater time on my own mutually. I dont think of that have been fed up in eachother whether it specific isnt the way it was once. Im not sure how sick feell while they're all long previous. My oldest is long previous and that i omit her each and every of the time, I dont think of sick be relieved while my youngsters are long previous, sick be slightly depressed i assume untill i'm getting used to the quiet.

Answer 7

congratulations! i have been married for 26years and love it more now we know each other toughts likes, dilikes, making love is never dull because not only are you comfortable with each other it is never dull because you realize you have to do things different because you are not the same as you were 26 years ago. we have wonderful kids but they are grown now we have our house back if you know what i mean. if we want to go some where we go . its like a honeymoon. soulmate i found mine through good and bad,sickness, deaths births,divorces in the family,money, nomoney iwouldnt change a thing. live every day like it was you last who better to share it with than the person you have been with for 25 years you got it whipped . go ahead be happy you have made it to 25. CONGRATULATIONS!

Answer 8

25 year together means faced almost all difficulties together. Stand by each other in many situation.you also enjoyed some good movements in life given birth to childrens, send them to school,college,helps to get job and find good patern for your ward. with passing of time the relationship go stronger.

Answer 9

If you manage to withstand all the odds for the stormy 10-15years then most other storms would be a cake walk ie. if you have managed 25yrs together then the going is definitly strong!!

Answer 10

my grandma has been married to the same man for 35 years and they still make out like teenagers and leave love notes and call each other 20 times a day when they arent at home together..........kinda cheesy but they are my role models for relationships i dont think ive ever seen them argue for real ive seen them disagree discuss and compromise. i wish every relationship could be as good as theirs. congrats on your 25th. that is a strong testament to your love for your wife and hers for you