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Ok, just need opinions. Do you obsess over whether or not ou should call when you like someone? Like if you are just dating, going out, or seeing some girl/guy will you try to make sure not to call too much?

My friend likes this guy, they are dating but not exclusive yet so she never knows what to do. I can't help much cuz i am heartbroken and kind of hating guys now. (sorry,not all guys)

Last time she saw him they argued a bit. (about a stupid movie) but he got all sucky! Anyway, they were kind of fine after that. Now she is nervous about calling him. He hasn't texted her all week, he didn't talk to her on msn either. But they had just spent so much time together he might have needed a break.(talked 6days in a row) she had planned to call him tonight, to give him her new # cuz she's been using her moms phone. BUT she didn't get a chance to call (at work)
Should she call tomorrow and leave a message? or what? how not to look clingy?

2007-04-19 17:33:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I couldn't tellher what to do, I am in no condition. She is almost 20 so not too young....just inexperienced!!

2007-04-19 17:36:49 · update #1

Whats the TWO DAY RULE? we haven't heard of this?

2007-04-19 18:00:15 · update #2

7 answers

Your friend could send a casual text, and see if she gets a response. If not, she should move on. If it is meant to be he will make contact with her or at very least reply to her text. She shouldn't chase him-she needs to have some self-respect and show some self-confidence. She may just attract a lot more guys than she knows what to do with if she plays a little hard to get.
Good Luck.

2007-04-19 17:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by vyk 2 · 1 0

Every situation is a little different, and you never really know how the other person is going to view calling/texting...or whatever it may be.

You sort of need to really pay attention to the vibe coming from the other end. For example:If you send a text that says something along the lines of, "Hey, I hope you are having a great day! I hope to see/talk to you soon...etc" and you get a response that is very short and doesn't contain a lot of substance..."hey, going well thanks. Hope your day is good..."

Obviously, it's hard to read into messages because you have no face-to-face (please don't make the mistake of judging your interest through texts or IM's), but you really need to think about what the other person is saying to you.

If you are getting those types of response, I would really pay heed to the two day rule. You kill two birds with one stone here because you avoid smothering and possibly creeping the other person out, and you also find out how interested the other person based on whether they contact you first.

it might not be a good thing if you are initiating all of the conversation..especially in a early relationship, or "courting period".

2007-04-19 17:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by John H 3 · 0 0

I know exactly what your talking about. If she just want to let him know her new number then that's what a good girlfriend should do. Keeping each other inform shows how important the other person is to them. As long as she doesn't keep calling him then that's okay. Tell her to leave him a message and wait patiently for his call back. If he doesn't respond for more than 2 days then something is going on.

2007-04-19 17:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

who hasn't had that feeling of not wanting to seem...easy?! the best thing your friend could do is jsu give him his space. if he likes her he will gwt back to her in time and if he distance himself, its time to move on! it's sounds kind of cliche' but there are more fish in the sea. your friend is bound to find someone else if this relationship doesn't work out. but tell her to give it sometime! she'll kno whether or not if she's being to clingy and/or if the guy has feelings 4 her!!!

2007-04-19 17:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 1 0

Well, She should call, because if she doesn't call that gives him the chance to see what other girls offer. Maybe he is ALSO afraid to call thinking she is still mad about that argument. She should just call and tell him the number and be calm. Good luck to her though

2007-04-19 17:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

A week should be plenty of time. That will give her time to sort her stuff out, and him to go meditate or whatever keeps it real for him.

2007-04-19 17:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1 0

Grow the hell up and quit wasting bandwidth with your juvenile nonsense.

2007-04-19 17:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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