This guy, fat, ugly, disgusting, is continously bothering me...he does disgusting things like he chewed my pen...laughs with his friends..he is making me feel awkward and a loser...my friends are the other end of the class...and I don't know how to react...he is making me feel awkward with the boy I like whos sitting like close...and if arleady thinks I'm a loser...
I feel a shy loser in that class when in other classes I'm outgoing ...
thats the only class I have with the boy I like and this guy ruining it all...he is also mean...he talks bad about me with other guys...he even has a gf!
how come I do not have a bf....
I'm way better than him...
awww...help me
2007-04-22 09:24:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the guy I like arleady thinks I'm a loser...he happend to talk about me and told my friend everyone thought I was a loser and so did he...and my friend tried to talk nice bout me but he said I'll always be a loser for him...
I'm 14... :(
2007-04-22 09:26:41 · update #1
poor girl.. first of all you are NOT a loser. you are only 14.. you are in that awkward stage where all kids are mean and life sucks and you are going through puberty.. boys are WAY immature. (trust me you will get through it and realize this when you are older.. it's just a point of life everyone has to Get Through.) that guy is a jerk who is bugging you. but the guy you like is even More of a jerk. WHY the heck would you like a guy who called you a loser. of course guys at that age do call girls names and make fun and be entirely mean.. as their way of flirting. it's just a phase.. don't let it get to you. Also don't let your confidence go down because of them... just enjoy YOURSELF and do lots of things with friends. wait until boys grow up.. in a few years you will definitely have a boyfriend, just let everyone grow up and be mature. you sound much more mature than everyone around you.. and you deserve better! and you really do! don't get yourself so down over this... there are many more years to come, this is just one crappy moment in your social life.. it happens.
2007-04-22 09:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if the guy your with thinks your a loser then get rid of him! You are worth more than your weight in gold. And to the guy that is bothering you. This may be his way of showing affection. You should talk to him on his level without degrading him or putting him down. Let him know you like him as an individual but that you are not interested in him in a romantic manner. Tell him you understand guys do goofey stuff to impress their friends but, he hurt your feelings and that is something you would never do to him. Maybe if someone treats this guy like a human for once he will have no need to be so obnoxious. If he has a girlfriend as you say then he should think of this, what if another guy is treating his girlfriend the way he is treating you.
2007-04-22 09:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by a t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay-
if this is IN class, tell the teacher, she will totally understand a creepy guy bugging you. AND may move you.
Sad thing, he likes you! That is why he is bothering you so much. He is getting an emotion out of you, and that is exactly what he wants....you are feeding his ego by your actions.
I would tell the teacher first about the problem. Give her a day or two to respond. Then next time he bugs you, literally stand up in class-loudly and in a mean voice direct your attention toward him and say, NAME- stop bothering me! You are rude and Leave me alone or I will make sure the next time we "Take this" to the office and the prinicpal can tell you- Where to go! Got it???? Huh???? Good- Leave me alone!
You might get your wish....and that way-it will be all around school that you took him to the office because you were so mad, it will be clear to all the kids, YOU are serious about bullies and are not afraid to go "postal" on them in class. He will leave you alone! Tell your folks first, then teacher, so that way...they can't be mad at you for acting out. Trust me one D hall is nothing compared to getting that ape off your back!
2007-04-22 09:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok put down the coffee and stop freaking out. your 14 and if your gonna let people do you like this now its gonna be that way for the rest of your life. Stop having your friends talk you up to this dude you like and just go talk to him yourself if he shoots you down. He isnt worth all the worrying. Ok secondly dont let anyone talk about you in a negative light because if they do this and they see it affects you like it is now. You have given them all the power they need. As it sounds right now you seem to be buying into what he is saying about you in which case you need to put him in his place make fun of his pimples or gut or something in front of his friends and he will back off. this is only a start but i hope it helps GOOD LUCK and chill out
2007-04-22 09:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by motograter85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk find someone else that you like. Also, if your letting it show his attitude towards you is bothering you he is only going to keep doing it. Don't let him make a dartboard out of you.
2007-04-22 09:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him off. Say something bad and mean to him.
You can also avoid him...he only does it to get a reaction out of you. If your no fun he will stop.
2007-04-22 09:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to the guidance couselor and dont worry im sure theres a guy out there for you becuase the guy you like now sounds like a jerk
2007-04-22 09:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Considering how vile and nasty you were about the other guy, I can see why the guy you like doesn't like you back. Your "I'm better than him" attitude sucks.
I know you're only 14 but grow up and stop being so stuck-up and shallow.
2007-04-22 09:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
tell him to get a life the stupid fat guy
2007-04-22 09:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋