oke im kinda stupid. and my friends who are guys are always telling me that boys think its really hot/cute when a girls stupid. but i think thats really weird cause like wouldnt you want a girl whos really smart. so is that true
2007-04-22 08:43:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some men true are intimidated by intelligent women. Some men prefer "stupid" women.
I personally am an intelligent woman and find it hard to be stupid. I am who I am and make no exceptions...so if someone is going to like me they will take me as I am.
Who cares what guys like when you're happy with yourself?
2007-04-30 06:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by Gloria H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not true - nobody wants a stupid girl. Your so call guy friends are tryng to brainwash you into thinking that. They are laughing behind your back. So don't believe anything they tell you.
At your age, most guys like a smart girl with personality, one who have a sense of humour.
Good luck.
2007-04-29 00:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Susie L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come here so I can slap you! First off what makes you think that you are stupid? Guys that think stupid girls are probably trying to take advantage. I don't know and I'm sure that your not really that stupid. Maybe you act that way for attention but come on...
2007-04-30 15:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The men/boys who says they like stupid girls is because they are users. They can get stupid girls to do what they want. Do you want to be used? or Do you want to be Loved/liked and respected as a person? Stay away from users...be a smart..(smile)
2007-04-30 15:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how 'smart' your BF is. No husband wants a stupid wife. Boys want to think of themselves as 'smarter' and 'superior' but the fact is that they are insecure and unsure of themselves. If you are in a relationship, you share. How would you like to share with your 'stupid' other? That should answer your question for once and for all.
2007-04-30 08:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by charliehc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's cute to see girls be stupid to some extent and I don't really mean 'stupid'. If you want a guy to like you, then be yourself. I wouldn't want my gf to act stupid when she's really actually smart.
2007-04-22 15:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by James F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the hottest women are boh beautiful & intelligent. I'm thinking Catherine Zeta-Jones. she's smart & beautiful. Mira Sorvino. Reese Witherspoon. the list goes on.
the guys who like "stupid" women are just looking for a) a good time, b) somebody they can boss around and make themselves feel smart and c) somebody who they can hopefully exert some control over because the girl doesn't know any better. Mostly because they feel inferior around a smart woman.
and please don't call yourself stupid. you're smart enuf to admit you're not the smartest one. that's pretty good already.
PS you look pretty darn hot to me.
2007-04-22 15:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by AW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but I know a lot of guys and believe me when I tell you this... GUYS HATE STUPID GIRLS!!
They like a girl who can amuse them, keep them on their tails, interested. Maybe they don't go for the geeky study every day kind of girl, but they do get crazy for a girl who can teach them a thing or two!
So don't worry.. and be you!
2007-04-22 15:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by yumi_yune 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When it comes down to getting serious with someone, both the guy and girl look for someone who has a straight head on their shoulders and someone who is intelligent. Dont need to be smartest person ever, but someone you can look at be like " yeah he/she is educated".
I know that most both guys and girls look for this in their partners, so yeah to answer your question if its cute to be dumb....no its not.
2007-04-30 14:53:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys who are actually worth any-thing dont want a stupid girlfriend. they want someone who they can talk to. how r they going feel when they're talking to theire girl about what they understood from history class and their girl dosnt know one thing the teacher said that day?
your retarded. Hit the books
2007-04-22 15:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋