I was married for 8 years, I've never cheated or betrayed a women before. It's complicating but i love my wife even when she cheated on me i forgave her for all the wrong things she has done. Time and time again she walks out of my life and she cant live without me and as well as i cant live without her. She recently divorced me months ago. And when that all happen i was so majorly depressed i fell into a relapse memory which i dont remember a whole part of my life. I thought i was 17 and didnt even knew i had a son. I fell in love with another Girl when i couldnt recall anything.Until only then i had my memory back and im in a delimma of confusion. My love for my ex-wife goes beyond love itself, I've bled for her done everything i could and i never gave her any less. She's been thru hell for me it drove her insane. The other is young she's 18 and im like 24. She's sweet and all that is merry but lacks commitment and undergoes curfews,and she lies to her parents to see me.
2007-04-22 09:20:34 · 6 answers · asked by Lawrence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Neither. You need to get your life stright before you envolve any in it. Do you think it is fair for the new girl to have to deal with all this? And as for the ex, well, ex's are that for a reason, and even if you still care, move on, they are not worth it.
2007-04-22 09:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im going to say drop the ex. Even though you say you love her it sounds like she has been treating you like garbage you and you deserver better then that. Check out the web for topics about letting go and moving forward. It should help you get over her.
As for the new girl, right now you are in a bad part of your life and so it would be better to try and get your own life on track before adding someone new to it. Perhaps once your own life is better then try seeing her again.
2007-04-22 09:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by asguard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be to not pick either of them. I would seek reputable medical treatment for the memory loss - if not physical seek mental and emotional treatment before committing to another relationship.
As to the ex - time should heal the pain.
Good luck - hope all works out for you.
2007-04-22 09:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by scpathfinder 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither. But rather seek assistance in finding out WHO YOU are, and making YOURSELF and YOUR life whole.
........Before involving ANY other person.
2007-04-22 09:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife .and u guys should go mariage counselin
2007-04-22 09:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by Fum's Diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEITHER
2007-04-22 09:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by sewingmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋