Hey, I met this girl at church 5 weeks ago. We have hung out a few times and I went to her house for easter dinner to meet her parents. I asked her on 2 dates before and she said yes both times but then told me she was not ready for a date so I told her that I could wait as long as she needed to wait and I had no problem with it...Lately she has been acting a little weird, been getting on messenger and saying BRB and not coming back. Also I am always the one that has to intiate the coversation or we dont talk at all and I am a shy guy so thats not always easy for me to do.....Two of her friends have asked me if I liked her and I told both of them yes. The one I just told said they would talk to her to see why she is acting so weird, and I told them dont pressure her cause thats the last thing I want. She has never been in a relatinship before so i dont want to scare her off or anything. But I like her so much and I dont want this oppurtunity to pass.
2007-04-22 09:14:05 · 4 answers · asked by Johnny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that If I dont tell her I like her one of her friends that I told will. So either way I am sure she will find out. But I dont want her to feel pressured, me and her are pretty quite around eachother unless I start the coversations. But she is everything I want in a girl and I am a vary nice guy and just want to try to work things out. But is telling her I like her a bad idea? Any other advice?
2007-04-22 09:15:15 · update #1
Don't be a coward. Go and speak your mind to her.
(Say, I didn't read the details.)
2007-04-22 09:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never hurts to be honest. Just remember she may not be looking for a long term commitment. And she is scared she will get attached, is why she makes excuses like "brb" and such. She may think she is still young and wants to exiperince life. You sound like a well rounded and grounded guy. You deserve a girl who gives you all her attention and love. Regardless of the rest of the world around her. And since you told the friends how you feel then yes she should hear it from you, but let it be known your intentions upfront right then and there so no one gets a heart break. Lord knows we allhave had too many of those.
2007-04-22 09:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by a t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you've done alot to let it be known that you like her.. i would jut wait for her to come to you.. It's sweet that you said you would give her all the time she needed and dont want to pressure her...just stand by that. things should work out for you.. glad to hear you're still gng to church.. : )
best wishes
2007-04-22 09:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by avaughn09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it, becuase if you don't it's just going to pass you by and you may end of regretting it, so take that chance, and be honset with her.
2007-04-22 10:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by shannymyhomeboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋