Ok, there's this guy that i have a crush on and he's really shy and i mean shy he has given me signs he might like me but i need some help in knowing if he likes me! help, please?
2007-04-22 09:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There r way to many signs to just have one clear one because guys show how they feel in many diff ways...
***How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
*He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
* He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
*He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
*He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
*He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
*He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
*He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
*He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."
*His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.
*His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
*His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
*He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
*His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
*He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
*He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
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*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-04-22 09:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I was once pretty shy proper up til 9th grade. If he is makin eye contact with you, and you seize him lookin greater than once then he as a rule likes you. A just right test is to seem back at him and give a little bit half smile, if you see his eyes get all huge than theres a fantastic threat he likes you.
2016-08-11 02:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a shy guy and if i cherished a woman, i could basically smile at her and take care of her greater beneficial then the way i take care of the different ladies. identity probs tell her shes exceptionally and stuff. She could understand.
2016-10-13 05:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by doelling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness is a man's greatest enemy. He loses too many chances to the jerks. Therefore, unfortunately, you must be a little more agressive with him, and give him some obvious signs that you really like his company and who he is.
If it is clear to him that you like him, it will be easier for him to overcome his shyness and ask you out! g/l
2007-04-22 09:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Daler™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im a shy guy so i would know: he looks at you frequently, doesn't talk around you, is near you a lot,and some what ignores you.
2007-04-22 09:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by catcher paintballer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go over and talk to him. It's that simple. Do it in a place he is not around other folks, and then everything will be fine.
2007-04-22 09:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.looks at you a lot
2.walks around you a lot
3.smiles at you a lot
2007-04-22 09:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is shy, then maybe you should ask him out yourself. It is harder than girls think to ask girls out.
2007-04-22 09:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by James F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋