Yes or no please. It's for a survey. Thank you!!
2007-04-22 10:49:10 · 22 answers · asked by katiecski 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. This way, you'll understand that you can both afford to split the bills & expenses in a way that makes both of your lives manageable, you'll understand what you do and don't like about that person's habits, and you'll make sure that you can really put up with the person for the rest of your life! When you do not see the person every day or night, you can overlook things and have dumb arguments during marriage. It's better to live with the person you're going to marry before the actual marriage takes place, as it'll be less of a shock.
2007-04-22 11:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sassi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
absolutely. I know that the old school people do not agree with it. but with divorce at a rate of over 50% its a real good idea. this way you see all of the good, bad. and ugly. and sometimes real ugly. You dont always know where they stand on certain ideas, or if they even share the same page with you until you have to deal with these situations. And then, you may realize weather or not you will be able to stand them for the rest of your life. I was married 8 years. we lived together 6 months. it was horrible, we were completely different. prior to that i lived with a man 2 years. i hate him to this day. currently i am with a man and have lived with him 4 years, we get along great. although, i think it may still be a while before i am ready to marry.
2007-04-22 18:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by denise 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Definitely YES
2007-04-22 17:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by gracie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-04-22 19:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
After my husband and I decided to get married, we did live together for about 2 months. We have been married for almost 5 years now. I think its a great way to learn things that may sabotage a marriage early on, and a way to circumvent major disasters in the relationship.
2007-04-22 17:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Amber W 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear Friend, It really depends on you. I grew up in a christian family and cohabitation was a big NONONO. However I personally feel that I want to live with my fiancee because If we don't get along living together while engaged...we wont when married...
What If you don't live with your fiancee and then live together after you get married but find out you to don't get along....then what do you do?
2007-04-22 18:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by Bride2Be 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Well sure you'll get to know them better, the good the bad, AND the ugly.
2007-04-22 17:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by tropicaltide 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I agree to marry a guy but we had to live together for six months. I moved out after about five months.
2007-04-22 17:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes. If you live together beforehand there are fewer surprises and you know what you're getting into.
2007-04-22 18:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by K S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it is good but there true colors for either one do not come out until yall are married. that is the true test. good luck
2007-04-22 17:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by instig8tor682000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋