Ok, so I have this friend, and she is SO into herself! It is really quite annoying. She constantly talks about how she went to the mall this day, and the outlet that day, and how she went to Italy last month, and how she has SO much stuff, and blah blah... I mean, it would be totally fine if she wasn't so concieted about it, or if she didn't brag about herself 24/7... and to make things worse, she won't socialize with anyone unless they are dressed with fashionable clothes. Like, one day I wore my track jacket to school, and she didn't talk to me all day, but the next day I dressed normally and she was normal with me again. How do I deal with her??
2007-04-22 11:40:42 · 15 answers · asked by Susan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
find a new friend
2007-04-22 11:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have a friend exactly like yours. Brags about how COOL she is and stuff. I've told her already. Its kinda difficult to tell the person but its for a good cause. Bring her to a corner,go straight to the point about you not liking her and why.Tell her exactly what you said in your msg.Say it kindly and then give her another chance to change. If she just hates you and walks away, don't bother about feeling too bad.Its for her own good. Who knows, later in life she may meet ppl who may not tell her kindly about herself!They may hurt her,but you would have knocked some common sense into her. Try it...it may work.There are many good friends out there,you just need to find them!=D
2007-04-23 23:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by Hara Michiyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no-win for you. Drop her yesterday. Narcissists always take victims along the way, and you'll be on her list if you stay around her. Find other normal accepting and loving people to have as friends. Friendship is not acquaintance like this is. This gal has no friends, because it must be a two way street and non judgmental, which she violates all the time. . She has people who follow her like the Pied Piper.
2007-04-22 11:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say she isn't a true friend, if she is only trying to promote her self.
Selfish people are most the time really insecure on the inside and have to boost their self esteem as much as possible on the outside to compensate for it.
Soon, she will lose any good friends she has, and later will end up regretting it.
At least you are smart enough to recognize it, before you end up hurting people.
2007-04-22 11:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by hypnosisbyjill 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its a one way relationship, back off a little. You don't need a drag on your life. Keep her as a friend but don't hang out all the time. Find other healthier relationships where you can have fun together and talk about something other than the friends issues.
2007-04-22 11:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this occurred to me! i instructed the lady interior the face she continuously noted her stuff and gave her examples! and don't be too recommend! if she gets mad, finally she'll be happy! tell her your thoughts! :)
2016-10-28 17:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. One of two things will happen. She will forget you, and you will be better off for it. She will notice that she is being ignored and you will get the result you want.
2007-04-22 11:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. you should tell exactly what you told us about her. tell her to get over herself. the world does not evolve around her.
2007-04-22 13:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by triniunispy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one time i ahd a friend liek that kinda just want to slap them!
okay tell her this,
say you want to talk then tell it to herself. you are frekin consieted and all the other stuff, and even use examples if other epoepl thinks this too they should be there to bak you up, and tell her whjy am i even friends wioht you=? you are so frekin conceited and yada yada. its works, she moght cry but hell with her
2007-04-22 11:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's a horrible friend.
Don't even bother with her
2007-04-22 11:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by atari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a snob to me. Lose her, and quick before you turn into her.
2007-04-22 11:47:34 · answer #11 · answered by crash27_m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋