Who's wrong here? Me or my mother?

Question

she asked me down to help her on a computer game she downloaded. its a puzzle game and as she knows i play video games, i could help. even tho i was fed up with her asking me to help her on games i have never played i tried to helps anyways. after i helped, she said " is that the best you can do? in a kinda sarcastic disappointed tone.

Now it makes me break and shout when she always asks me to help on her games. Sure i play video games, but their xbox 360 games and First Person Shooters like Rainbow six vegas and halo. so i kinda shouted at her, spoke my mind and then she really shouts at me calls me a cow and then tries to put guilt on me saying i do alot for you.

She had a tone, she shouted i Tried to help but she just expects that i can help her or i know what do it just cause i play games. WTF.

Whos in he wrong here? Me or her?

Answer 1

her for being inconsiderate and rude and puting you down and shouting, you for also shouting even though its hard not to

Answer 2

Technically because of the way society works her. But you being a kid of my generation, I'm disappointed. You know these darn adults are so lost in there way that there kids themselves and you not noticing that and seeing you have to be the bigger kid, disappoints me;-) ether way thats what you looking at. You know more about the "games" in general to set her mind right and see that even thou you don't know how to play her games, there no where as advanced as the ones you play. So no pride loss if she wants to dog you because she doesn't know any better. Also this specks of a larger inability of her to relate to you and you to relate with her. The ways to get past this are numberous and can only happen if you both amitted there is a problem there..... until then you guys are not just going to fight over this crap, theres still the small matter of your life she gets to fight with you about. You'll just have to find a way to be the bigger person are continue to drop back down to her level.... what do you expect from a society that makes 18 year olds peers to there parents?