Shall i tell everything?
i had phy relation with a boy but he is no more now. now i m going to marry shall i say every thing about my past to my would be??
For this question i have resived ans as no but if my would be will know about my phy relation with him than. Is it possiable that he will know nothing.
2007-04-22 22:40:33 · 8 answers · asked by sona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Did you tell the one your marrying you were a virgin? If so, then you had better recant, otherwise it's not just up to you to go around telling everyone you meet of your physical relationship with "so-n-so".
Even if that someone else is your intended spouse. I would think that you'd have to ask "so-n-so" if it was okay to reveal your past intimate relationship to your new beau.
Do you share family and friends that may say something to your intended? If it's going to get back to the spouse anyways, maybe it's better for him to hear it from you.
Otherwise, don't "kiss-n-tell" no matter how tempting it might be to think: if I tell him, maybe he'll tell me who he has been with. Most men won't anyways. So "mum's" the word.
2007-04-22 23:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he askes you, maybe you have to tell the truth, but if he doesnt, then there is no need to dig into the past....people make mistakes, the past is in the past...you could only look towards the future, as there is no turning back
2007-04-23 07:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Honeybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you need to speak out the truth, then tell him. You have a choice to tell or not and you should be prepared for the outcome. He may not like what he heard, darling. Just a thought....
2007-04-23 05:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your previous relationships have nothing to do with him. Keep your past to yourself, and let his keep his to himself. This is a fresh start, bringing up the past can only ruin the new relationship.
2007-04-23 06:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him everything if you feel like it or wait till he asks you and then tell him everything,the truth will set you free
2007-04-23 07:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Snake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything. Males are so dumb they wouldn't know anyhow. I am sure that he has something in his closet he hasn't told you.
2007-04-23 06:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. tell it .. u obviously feel guilty or some part of u wants to come clean.. so do it.. tell your fiance.. it will atleast get u some peace
2007-04-23 05:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you dont know cant hurt you!!
2007-04-23 05:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋