My ex boyfriend (went out with for 2.5 years, split up 9 months ago) recently decided that he liked one of my friends who I was supposed to be sharing a house with in about a months time.
The two of them are now having some kind of relationship with each other which has affected the friendships between us all.
Its not so much that I mind that he has a girlfriend as I have no interest in him at all in that way but I am still really annoyed about the whole thing. He told me that he would be upset if I were to start dating any of our friends and yet he goes and does it himself!
I'm not sure how to stop feeling so annoyed or even exactly why I feel like that at all!
2007-04-22 23:04:30 · 11 answers · asked by cheeky_delinquent 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Remind him of that conversation were he told you hed be upset if you were date any of your friends then call his best buddy.You have every right to be annoyed Id be down right p.o.ed
2007-04-22 23:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tazz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you, just for the simple fact, it makes for an awkward situation for you all... Maybe you can make other housing arrangements? I think maybe you're not completely over him yet, (2.5 years IS a long while to be with someone...!) and I think it was disrespectful of him and your friend to start a relationship with each other... considering the circumstances between you all.
2007-04-23 06:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by PrettyMama982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As it's nine months since you broke up with him they probably think you are over it and can deal with it. You clearly feel very uncomfortable about it though and I think that's normal. Allow yourself to get used to the idea. In time you will probably find that it doesn't bother you anymore. It's just the shock of finding out they are now an item. These feelings will pass and you'll be able to move on.
2007-04-23 06:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by skippa_10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be glad you found out before you moved in with the friend.
Definitely make other housing arrangements.
2007-04-23 06:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by outtahere2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are not truly over him.
Move on and stop hanging onto this jerk.
BTW, he has no right to tell you how he would feel if you were to thats one of your friends, you aint with this loser anymore.
2007-04-23 06:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by lami_by_design 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, it's annoying. Tell him to his face that if he is dating someone else, then why shouldn't you? Even if he is dating your friend, don't interfere with them and you, too, go on with your life and start dating.
2007-04-23 06:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
these are natural feeling my dear u had a realationship with him and now u see him doing and sharing all that with somebody you know so its making u annoyed i don't think there's anything wrong with it ...you need to make more freinds and try avoiding them if that makes u uncomfortable ...all the best
2007-04-23 06:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by glister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called life. You'll just have to move on and put it down to experience. Don't get annoyed, just smile and look forward.
2007-04-23 06:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand u but if it will bother u dont share a house with ur friend cos ur ex will come there more often and thats not good.
2007-04-23 06:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be glad that you got rid of this jerk. Tell your so-called friend that if she doesn't have any more respect for you than that, she is no friend at all.
2007-04-23 06:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋