How Painful Is LOVE?

Question

Why is love so painful, and how so? Describe a situation in which love was overwhelmingly painful?

Answer 1

When my wife and friend of 20 years left me for a friend she had met, that is when love will really hurt bad.

Answer 2

the painful one is first love , you know when ur young like 17 or 18 and u love the guy and u had a relation for four years and have a lot of plan in the future and u just gone for few months to work and save some money and comes back you will hear that he got girl and mde her pregnant and it's already 6 months , how painful is that , yeah ...
and most terrible pain i can not forget until now is seeing them walking infront of you with a big tummy , really i was melting .
And because of that pain , im here in the UAE got a very good job and having a wonderful husband and a daughter .
But i still remember the pain of love from r first love.

Answer 3

To answer your question -- no it does not hurt. After everything is done, you may have a gritty feeling in your eyes but that will soon disappear. You will notice the difference right away and it is quite amazing. For about a month, you will notice a halo around lights. That should also disappear after a while. I wouldn't drive at night until this goes away. I had mine done about four years ago. Here was my situation. My left eye was far sighted and my right eye was near sighted (my right eye was my dominant eye). When I had the surgery done, the right became my far sighted eye and the left became my near sighted eye. I have never been able to get used to that. Also, I still need to wear reading glasses and, I pretty much can't see close up without them. It all depends on the person and the condition of your eyes before the surgery. But I would definitely look around and do some research. I am still amazed at how far away I can see but I wish I could see as good close up. Good luck!

Answer 4

Love is not painful. Being in love with someone that does not love you is painful. I know from experience.

Answer 5

its some kind of pain that we do like to recieve.
just like when a bee stings U, U know that if U scratch , it would hurt more .. but common .. can U RISSIST that (itchy) feeling ??
and the reliefe feeling afterwards ??

I dont think so
;o)

and again .. its through pain we appreciate the non-painful moments .. cuase without pain.. we will have no referance to compare our happiness to

well, thats how I see it

Answer 6

Love is nothing except pain. It is important that you love a responsible person, which sometimes appears but actually isn't

Answer 7

yes.. y does love hurt? it seems that the pain of a broken heart is amplified exponentially, compared to the pleasure of love. love is my drug of choice, i love to love. i wish i could just let go.... be free, unguarded, exposed and not have to protect my heart. but people r f_d in the head. i mean when i love i think of them first, me second and so do they. sad but so far true. im 30 . . maybe its the balance of life, yin yan, karma, the energy we all posess. i cant expect to be treated as i treat people, id be a misserable wreck. love is a gamble i try not to bet more than im wiling to lose. sad but true

Answer 8

Love isn't painful.
Being dumped is painful, a man cheating on ya is painful, fights are painful.
But not love itself.

Answer 9

love is not painful, loving someone more than that person love you is painful. being in love with someone and found out he/she is cheating you is painful.

Answer 10

love is painful because everything will become twofold....problems etc,

but the joys of love outweigh the pain, by miles!!!!