i had phy relation with a boy but he is no more now. now i m going to marry shall i say every thing about my past to my would be??
2007-04-22 22:22:35 · 11 answers · asked by sona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep your mouth shut.
Your concern is the future, not the past.
2007-04-22 22:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...tell him. Why not? Your soon to be husband should understand.
So you had something with someone else prior to meeting your fiancee...is it against your religion or faith? Is it that you told your future husband you're a virgin?
Be open, be honest and be truthful. Marriages are built on love, trust and honesty. I don't see where the problem is but each individual relationships (marriages) are totally different from others.
2007-04-23 05:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on whether you can live with that secret or not? Personally, if you were not dating or exclusive at the time, then it has no place being discussed, however, if it was a cheeting situation while you two were together, then you have to decide what you can/can't live with.
2007-04-23 05:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether you had this relationship while you were involved with your fiance or not. If it was before, it doesn't matter. But if it was during, you really have to decide what you will gain or lose by disclosing.
2007-04-23 06:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... it depends.....
It will test the strength of your relationship with him if you tell.. It can be a good thing if you are prepared for the worst outcome.....
However of you are NOT prepared for the worst outcome.. then by all means keep quiet about it... thats is of course when he ask about it...
take care..
2007-04-23 05:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally up to you but I guess you should keep it to yourself to avoid trouble and you should know what I mean.
2007-04-23 05:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah... at least you get to know what your future husband will think about your past, the n you would know if he accepts you or not...JcRaveN~
2007-04-23 05:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by JcRaveN~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No--it really serves no purpose---he has a past---would you want to know??
2007-04-23 05:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,NO,don't say past way
2007-04-23 05:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by rajaratnam s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should open up and tell him everything, that is better than he finding it out himself.
2007-04-23 05:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by spankybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋