Family & Relationships - 22 April 2007

I don't know why but I relize that a lot of men aren't there to take care of thier children. Also a lot of men refuse to pay child support and make it much harder for the women to raise her child. I grew up with out a father, and I rarely today see good Dad's out there that man up and take care of thier responsabilities.

2007-04-22 19:44:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well the no sex started about 15 years ago after she had our son, she said that "that was all the kids she was having and she didn't need sex in her life anymore, so she feels that i don't need it anymore. also after we quit having sex it seems like we have grown apart and i don't know how to get close again. It seems like we don't love each other like we did in the past, maybe that is how it is suspose to be?

2007-04-22 19:43:49 · 13 answers · asked by hickory 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a knowledgeable person?where can we gain knowledge?

2007-04-22 19:43:12 · 11 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know whether what ive did was the dumbest thing or maybe even worse(as 4 me)..today i've decided to return back all of my ex bf pictures(f.y.i broke off 3 years ago)..before i have promise myself not to involve(hear anything from him) about him anymore...but when i found his childhood pictures that was given to me suddenly i felt it isnt right to burn the pictures since that pictures is valuable because we cant go back to our childhood only the pics can take the glimpse of it..so ive post the pics n send to his home address (we're are not in the same state) so ive been thinking bout this the whole day was it right or wrong i return back the pics cause i dont want he to think that i still want to get him(im already engaged) back or more than that..warghhhhhh was it right or wrong (

2007-04-22 19:41:29 · 23 answers · asked by tinkerbellpebbles 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-22 19:33:58 · 18 answers · asked by vampirellasbite 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for 2 yrs. We live together & I thought everything was fine until I recieved a change of address form with his information on it in the mail. When I confronted him he stated, "I need some space to figure things out."

So he moved most of his stuff out of the house. Later on that night, he called me almost a hundred times until I turned off my cell & took the house phone off the hook. He keeps saying he wants to come back. I don't understand how you can ask for space & then be wanting to come back so soon.

So yesterday I asked him to leave his key & said that we should try to not talk or see each other for awhile to figure out what we both want. He refuses.

I don't know what step to take now since I've been heartbroken since this happened. I want him to come home but I'm also beyond pissed for his actions & now have trust issues that I never had in our relationship. Is this relationship worth keeping or should I cut my loses & move on?

2007-04-22 19:33:32 · 1 answers · asked by Angela 3 in Singles & Dating

Usually when my boyfriend doesn't pick up my phone calls I call back over and over, sometimes 20 times until he does. He sees it as cute more than anything else but I guess in a part it's a control thing on my part. What I don't understand though is why he finds it necessary to never pick up on the first call. I just find it strange and sort of inconsiderate, as if he thinks I have nothing better to do. I know I'm enabling him but I just thought that out of love you don't want to drag your partner to the lengths of doing things that I do, rational or not.

2007-04-22 19:32:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i been with this guy for about 2 years now and he just up and left me about 3 weeks ago..no reason no nothin all i been doing is crying i been trying to go out to forget about him but its not working i miss him so much all i think about is him all day..he was everything to me and now he's gone. I know that he's out having fun and that even hurts more I dont know what to do i am going crazie i kno that killing myself won't solve anything but at least i wont have to feel this pain right? sumone please give me sum type of advice cus right now its feeling like it will never be the same without him....i kant do anything i kant watch tv, listen to the radio nothing!! everything reminds me of him i dont kno what to do really i dont please help asap

2007-04-22 19:31:00 · 19 answers · asked by i_miss_cesar 1 in Friends

2007-04-22 19:29:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Seems fair to me. At least then you can make a more informed choice on whether you still want to go through with it.

2007-04-22 19:24:11 · 18 answers · asked by P.Gill 2 in Singles & Dating

I really love him but my dreams are diffrent ,I want to get married he doesnt and I dont like the town he lives in.Its only 8 miles away but I wouldnt want to live there.He shows up alot at the places I like to hang out and we talk.I always act cool.Like Im real happy to see him but I dont miss him but in truth I do I just dont see him changing and It hurts to see him .I feel he comes to those places wanting to see me.He acts like he is just in the neighborhood.I dont want to go back because I wasnt happy but we want to be freinds the question is how?.I want to be there for him in a real emergency if he needs me but I need to move on .Its hard to talk to others when he is talking to me..He claims he is seeing others.Im not sure I beleive him.I mean I know where he is friday and saturday.I feel he is checking on me plus he gives me lectures on safety and tells me I shouldnt hang out in a bar.I just want to be his freind swallow the pain and meet someone new.We were together for 5 years.

2007-04-22 19:22:42 · 12 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a situation here whereby I am lacking sex for 3 years after marriage... I got 2 kids... and was having sex just to make babies... and I can barely count with my fingers the number of time.. I tried to communicate to her and say i needed it and she was like not helping at all... someone please help me.. as I don;t want to look for hooker to solve this problem

2007-04-22 19:20:58 · 17 answers · asked by babeintown 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After having no contact with my ex for almost a month she e-mails me saying we can be just friends, then I ran into her this weekend and she seemed pretty friendly and when I told her I needed to talk to her she told me to meet her at her work when she got off at 730. Well 730 rolled around and I went to go meet her but the place where she worked was already closed. did she mistakingly tell me the wrong time or was she trying to avoid me. Should I contact her again??

2007-04-22 19:20:24 · 2 answers · asked by broken heart 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok last night some way somehow my gf got my exs email address and they started talking yesterday and added me into the conversation. So pretty it was a cat fight and my left while my girlfriend was still talking. After everything my ex said that is too much drama and to make sure that my gf doesn't bother her again with stupid crap so she pretty much doesnt want to talk to her. So today my gf told me she still has the email address and is thinking about using it again to talk to her. So I told my gf that is disrespecting me and not trusting by alwasy wanting in on something that has nothing to do with her. She pretty much told me too bad and how I feel really doesn't matter right not cuz she really needs to talk to her. So I gave her a choice me or the email address and she picked both so I picked for her now we are broken up. What is her deal? Did I do the right thing? What should I do?

2007-04-22 19:16:00 · 10 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

any one any idea

2007-04-22 19:13:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im talking about sex obviously...

And by attraction I mean either physically and/or mentally unattractive.

2007-04-22 19:07:41 · 14 answers · asked by justicespeaks321 1 in Singles & Dating

while she pulled off he stared until out of sight, whats up?

2007-04-22 19:06:13 · 1 answers · asked by The Wonder ONE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm crazy about 1 guy n totaly in love with him!! But now i just figured out that he has 2 move with his family 2 the U.S (I live in Mexico), n i can`t go n live with him cuz I'm still not 18, so I don't know what 2 do!! Could plz somebody make me a little hapier?? Plz!! My heart is like broken! I would do anything about him but theres nothing u can do about it that he would stay!

2007-04-22 19:03:43 · 9 answers · asked by wanna b me 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this guy for a boyfriend -- online boyfriend.

i didn't mean to fall that much, I know online dating doesn't work for long and that i was expecting us to fall apart sooner or later.

But when i found out that he has another My Space account and that in there he has this another for a girlfriend, my blood rushed and I felt like numb for a while. I was so hurt.

Just this morning, the girl sent me message. She was asking me if her "Jon" is the same "Jon" as mine. I replied yes.

It's really a nagging thought but when i confronted him, he denied everything when in fact he is caught red-handed.

What shall I do to get this off my mind? I'm hurt.

2007-04-22 19:01:26 · 7 answers · asked by ••Tara•• 5 in Singles & Dating

i love some one so much, but i have absolutely know way to communicate, im only a preteen, (my sister lets me use her yahoo.) we met at a website, and started talking, i miss him so much, how would you feel?

2007-04-22 19:00:32 · 7 answers · asked by Pika obbsessed.... 2 in Singles & Dating

repeatedly? I just prefer sleeping in my own bed. Plus, guys tend to get you in this vice-grip cuddle after sex and it's suffocating! I like to spread out when I sleep!

2007-04-22 19:00:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I could have sex several times a day or week, but my bf doesn't seem to want it as much as I do. He often makes sexually teasing comments or suggestions, some of which are very creative, but he rarely follows through. We have had sexual problems in the past; he has PE. Also, both of us are in school and subject to a lot of stress. Do you think this could be a reason why he's not as randy as me, because he could be insecure? He is a shy person who doesn't really like to take the lead, but I wish he'd be sexual more often. One time I joked that he had the sex drive of a 60 year old man while I was like a 15-year-old boy, and he just chuckled. This makes me feel insecure, especially since we're long distance and don't get much time together as is. I am worried that maybe he doesn't want me very much. How can I fix this or try get more sex without being pushy? Should I initiate, or give up? Sometimes I am tempted to cheat because I feel so deprived. Should I tell him?

2007-04-22 19:00:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are newly married couples...we had been together only for four months...i want to satisfify fully but in different way...plshelp me.........

2007-04-22 18:59:55 · 15 answers · asked by RAM77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

even though our wedding isnt year from now, we started talking about who we will be inviting. he wants to invite this couple who he went to school with to come but the problem is, they hate me. they told him how he could do so much better and all and i dont think its right to invite them. Then theres this other girl he wants there and we cant stand each other. she likes him as bf material and shes so rude to me and all these people tell me they dont like me. a wedding is a celebration and am i wrong for wanting them to not come?

2007-04-22 18:58:21 · 23 answers · asked by preciousangel831 2 in Weddings

ie like smaller ones have a complex so they are bigger a holes. or big ones are cocky so they cheat a lot ??

2007-04-22 18:53:12 · 21 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Singles & Dating

ive been going with this girl i really like.
last prom(march) i asked her to be my date and she said yes. but a week before the prom i found out she kissed another guy. i didnt know what to do.sure the guy took her first kiss and i was so jealous. im just not sure if it was french kiss or just a normal kiss..and i was so angry at her..i said so many bad things to her and hurt her..

but i still want to kiss her and im still desperate!!

2007-04-22 18:52:16 · 9 answers · asked by rayray 2 in Singles & Dating

Not to long ago I met this guy. We met only once in person and spoke mainly over the phone. He has already called me names before he knew my real name and later appologized for name calling. Then he started to mock me, at certain times. I thought it was just a one time thing, but he has been doing it a lot. He has mocked me only when I say something truthful and instead of admitting I was right, he would be immature and mimic me. Today, I confronted him again, he got offended when I brought it to his attn. Saying,"I will try to only do it once a day" Then he says, "I am funny" and being sensitive. He wanted to see me again this week, but I will be ignoring his calls. I will not see him anymore, b/c I found out real quick, this guy is too immature for me although he is 30.

2007-04-22 18:47:37 · 5 answers · asked by Amenity 3 in Singles & Dating

im 17 right now, and i told him that when i'm 18, we could do it
i know that's a long time from now, but if we do last (and i think we will ...), would it be ok?

We've been together for a year now, and for some reason I feel grad would be the perfect time

he said he won't pressure me into anything, but a year from now, who knows i might want him badly too

would it be a bad idea? do you think we'd still be together afterwards?

or do you think he'd leave me?

2007-04-22 18:43:35 · 44 answers · asked by Ichigo M 3 in Singles & Dating

I have only been with this girl for 4 months. But of all the women I have met or even dated, they never come close to how great she is and how good she is to me and I love her very much. I have been with women far longer than her and never felt this way about anyone. I'm not some teenager with a high school girlfriend, I'm in the Air Force and well into my 20s. It looks like I will be getting orders to another base in August in another state. I love her very much and we are both very happy. I don't want to lose her as she is the best thing I have had since I have been here the last 3 years. I never wanted to rush anything with anyone, but she wants to go with me and I don't want to lose her. Should I ask her to marry me? I don't want to lose her as she could be 'the one'. Should I leave without her or ask her? She doesn't know I am thinking about this but I feel she would say yes.

2007-04-22 18:43:19 · 22 answers · asked by johnny d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know a really nice place near yakima wa to get married outside, i been trying to find places but i only found one, in wapato wa, i also need helping finding dance halls near that area..please help

2007-04-22 18:43:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings