repeatedly? I just prefer sleeping in my own bed. Plus, guys tend to get you in this vice-grip cuddle after sex and it's suffocating! I like to spread out when I sleep!
2007-04-22 19:00:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No not all the time. You need your space. Once and a while or what not yes. Don't turn him down all the time but not repeatedly. Mine as well move in together. So no you are not mean.
2007-04-22 19:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be more worried about how many nights you're in that position to have to worry about it!
sounds like you have quite a bit of experience in several different locations. You might want to have a discussion with your doctor about your "sleeping problem" and get tested for some stuff.
it's not mean. but it's weird. most girls LIKE to cuddle and it's the guys that don't. sound like you have a very detached view of sex. this love'em and leave'em style sounds very cold and detached.
I understand about wanting to sleep alone. you get much better sleep that way. If you're not getting any complaints from the guy then don't worry about it.
2007-04-23 02:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by teacherintheroom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know a guy well enough to have sex with him, I would think you could tell him you like to spread out when you sleep. Tell him that beforehand, and you two will work something out. I think you are really funny, and if he's cool he will too.
2007-04-23 02:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not mean. It would be far better if you could hold off till you found the guy you were planning to marry. Sex before marriage can be damaging emotionally. Keep going home to sleep!
2007-04-23 02:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have just not met the right guy for you. When the right one comes along, you won't care if he kicks you out of bed every night. You will just want to be close to him.
2007-04-23 02:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs to have their space. It is not mean.
Share your thoughts with the other.
There may be an understanding you both can sleep with, together.
2007-04-23 02:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mean - no. but i think you should recosider sleeping with someone you're not married to. are meaningless relationships all you are after? i doubt you'll find long-term hapiness this way.
2007-04-23 02:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by erselius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you like to spread out when youre awake too !!
2007-04-23 02:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, whatever makes you happy
2007-04-23 02:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋