I have this guy for a boyfriend -- online boyfriend.
i didn't mean to fall that much, I know online dating doesn't work for long and that i was expecting us to fall apart sooner or later.
But when i found out that he has another My Space account and that in there he has this another for a girlfriend, my blood rushed and I felt like numb for a while. I was so hurt.
Just this morning, the girl sent me message. She was asking me if her "Jon" is the same "Jon" as mine. I replied yes.
It's really a nagging thought but when i confronted him, he denied everything when in fact he is caught red-handed.
What shall I do to get this off my mind? I'm hurt.
2007-04-22 19:01:26 · 7 answers · asked by ••Tara•• 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"listen" to your own words. you said you didn't expect much from online dating. remember you are smart and a good, sensitive person. not many people are honest. especially when they don't "have" to be, like online.
most online players can be sweettalking you at the same time they're saying the same thing to someone else.
have fun online..but save the real thing for real life.
2007-04-22 19:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by shyanne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you knew it was going to fall apart ....why did you put so much into it ? The best thing you can do is move on. LIARS are very good at bending reality. It will never work with him. Take this as a life lesson. Dont give trust to someone that hasnt earned it . guard your heart . Stay busy with your friends or find a new hobby or interest . the pain will pass.
best wishes
2007-04-23 02:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can start by realizing that some of the hurt is caused by rejection.... it's human nature. Sort that out from your true feelings about him and then deal only with those feelings. You'll probably find out they didn't run that deep after all. Good luck and tomorrow is a brand new sun shiny day!
2007-04-23 02:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by squealy68 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember this--Most guys will lie, even if they are caught in the act. Just be glad that you found out what kind of jerk this guy really is.
Too many people lie about things on the internet. They lie about age, marital status, intentions, jobs, schools, backgrounds, looks, etc.. Always be leary, and never give them your full name and address. Many young girls have been stalked and raped by people they met on the internet.
2007-04-23 02:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget him i know its easier said than done but it will be worth it, i think you should maybe look for a guy that you can actually hangout with and get to know in person because you cant always trust what a person says while talking to them on the internet. good luck!
2007-04-23 02:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by unlabeled06 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find another guy offline, one who you can get to know in person, because alot of guys online are liars and only on there to see how many girls will respond to them
2007-04-23 02:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself another boyfriend.
2007-04-23 02:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Red Winged Bandit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋