Ok last night some way somehow my gf got my exs email address and they started talking yesterday and added me into the conversation. So pretty it was a cat fight and my left while my girlfriend was still talking. After everything my ex said that is too much drama and to make sure that my gf doesn't bother her again with stupid crap so she pretty much doesnt want to talk to her. So today my gf told me she still has the email address and is thinking about using it again to talk to her. So I told my gf that is disrespecting me and not trusting by alwasy wanting in on something that has nothing to do with her. She pretty much told me too bad and how I feel really doesn't matter right not cuz she really needs to talk to her. So I gave her a choice me or the email address and she picked both so I picked for her now we are broken up. What is her deal? Did I do the right thing? What should I do?
2007-04-22 19:16:00 · 10 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your girlfriend is pretty insecure. Maybe it is better off that you broke it off with her. If all she's going to do is cause problems for you then it's best that you avoid such a problematic girlfriend.
2007-04-22 19:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by CHEEKS69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful about setting Ultimatums next time. If you notice, your gf chose you (and the email addy of course). But you chose NOT her, (because of the email thing).
Unfortunately, she made her decision even after she knew that she would be disrespecting you. That was wrong of her. But remember that love is an action word. If you truly loved her, I'm not sure you would have been able to end your relationship with one disagreement. And also your ex must still have feelings for you if she hates your new gf so much.
(btw, what's with the male cult cheer on the first set of answers?)
2007-04-23 03:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by blindly_invisible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have ask her not to do it and she still dose it, it is disrespecting you,unless you are having something to do with your ex and you can't be trusted. You need to talk to your ex about your g/f and tell her not to respond, or has your ex told something to your g/f to still want to ask questions about you. Really sounds like your g/f needs to grow up and let go of the past (it's history) and go on looking at what lays ahead. Give it awhile and and if your g/f dose not come back to you,it wasn't meant to be. Theirs aways plenty of other girls out there waiting for a good guy. good luck
2007-04-23 02:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She totally disrespected you, disrespected your ex, invaded your privacy nosy or no nosy, there is a line and she more than crossed it, I had access many times to the ex's email address and I had both of her phone numbers, I would never do such a thing. There's no love there. You definitely did the right thing. signed born2damromantic
2007-04-23 05:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by born 2 d-mn romantic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-23 02:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by garfield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God, is your gf in junior high. Note the phrase ex girlfriend, leave hthe x alone. Your gf is prettty insecure. Look for someone more mature, no one needs that kind of drama.
2007-04-23 02:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Rizza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you did right by brealing up.If she is like that she is obviously way to immature for a relationship and has a lot of growing up to do.I would suggest just moving on and let her lead her on path.It is no point in stressing out over it.
2007-04-23 02:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by john_brinkl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did do the right thing. Too much drama for you too!! She sounds very immature. Be glad she is gone. Otherwise, every day will be a new problem. Your past is your past, it is none of her business unless you cheat on her with one of your exs.
2007-04-23 02:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not knowing either of you, i hestitate to place the blame solely on either party. obviously, something is missing in your relationship and unless you are both willing to identify and repair what is missing, it won't work in the long run.
2007-04-23 02:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by lrjg1725 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are nosey like that. Let her come back to you. If she never comes back it was not meant to be.
2007-04-23 02:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋