Im talking about sex obviously...
And by attraction I mean either physically and/or mentally unattractive.
2007-04-22 19:07:41 · 14 answers · asked by justicespeaks321 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I can't say that I have. I have to be attracted to the guy in some kind of way to even think about sex, mostly physical, but sometimes when they open their mouths...poof attraction gone.
2007-04-22 19:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I realize you are asking this question of your female peers, but I couldn't resist answering.
I am a male, albeit a 62 year old, I still feel that any PERSON who sleeps with someone just "because" is doing themselves and their intended partner an injustice.
Case in point, ME!
I have been married for 26 years and have not had SEX with my wife, or anyone else, though I have had many chances to do so, for the last 11 of those precious years.
THE REASON?
I can not justify it on a personal, physical OR spiritual level!
THE QUESTION IS: Can you justify it in your own mind?
You have to evaluate your own psyche to know the answer to that and if you cannot do that then by all means get to a professional who can help you.
Here's hoping you will know what is best for you AND your intended partner.
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2007-04-23 02:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by author2go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to have sex with someone you aren't attracted to? You should only have sex with the person you are planning on spending the rest of your life with and who you love, and how could you truly be in love with someone and want to spend your life with them if you aren't attracted to them? So the anwser is never. I will only have sex with the person who is my wife someday, and my wife with be someone I am attracted to.
2007-04-23 02:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never
2007-04-23 02:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've only done it once- the sex was good, but I regret doing it.
2007-04-23 02:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by Matty Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only once, the deed was great. But looking back, i'd just give it a shrug.
2007-04-23 02:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by ••Tara•• 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did at one time and am deeply regretful of it. i thought i could have a relationship with him too. i know, it was messed up. it was difficult to get out of as well.
2007-04-23 02:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by shyanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never done that ......Budweiser took care of that all the time.
2007-04-23 02:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I have done that one time..
2007-04-23 02:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way, you have to be attracted in some way!
2007-04-23 02:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋