I have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend does.?

Question

I could have sex several times a day or week, but my bf doesn't seem to want it as much as I do. He often makes sexually teasing comments or suggestions, some of which are very creative, but he rarely follows through. We have had sexual problems in the past; he has PE. Also, both of us are in school and subject to a lot of stress. Do you think this could be a reason why he's not as randy as me, because he could be insecure? He is a shy person who doesn't really like to take the lead, but I wish he'd be sexual more often. One time I joked that he had the sex drive of a 60 year old man while I was like a 15-year-old boy, and he just chuckled. This makes me feel insecure, especially since we're long distance and don't get much time together as is. I am worried that maybe he doesn't want me very much. How can I fix this or try get more sex without being pushy? Should I initiate, or give up? Sometimes I am tempted to cheat because I feel so deprived. Should I tell him?

Answer 1

I wanted to ask this q because I can tell you really do care about your bf. Unfortunately the short term answer is you're gonna grow out of him. the distance factor doesn't help either.

He doesn't even think about sex as much as you do let alone want to perfrom it. the real problem though is he does'nt want to PURSUE sex. It's just not the biggest priority for him.
You guys are just unevenly matched and sooner or later you will drift apart.

I think the thing about you is you're a romantic and you like to develop bonds and emotions and physical depths with a committed partner. Your present bf doesn't have that type of vision. But I'll give you a hint males who eat ravenously are high libidoed people. Sex and food have a lot in common.

Happy hunting, you're gonna have to be for a while.

Answer 2

I understand what you're taling about. When I was with my last boyfriend, I wanted to have sex way more than he did. I wanted to have sex at least three times a day. Try putting him into the mood- give him a massage, light some candles, put on some relaxing music. That worked for my guy. But if it's a deeper seeded problem, talk to your boyfriend. Try to find out what's going on with him.

Answer 3

Put your cards on the table, Tell your bf he should want more sex with you whenever you are both together with time alone... Tell him you are hot for him... any guy will not take long to decide the solution... if he is getting his sex from other ladies it is best he tells you... Tell him you hurt deeply to want him to touch and caress your feminine body... get specific about what you want him to do to rev your sex drive over the top... Let us know the outcome... Lucky at Love just means you know the good words to turn him on with you...

Answer 4

He's probably embaressed about his issues, and it causes him stress. Therefore sex is kind of stressful for him. If he can stand it, next time he has an issue with it just keep going- the second time will take longer.

Try having an honest conversation with him and tell him you want more sex- most guys would kill for their girl to tell them that! If he refuses to talk about it, maybe it's a deeper issue.

Answer 5

lol me and my boyfriend had been in combination practically three years and its like te whole reverse...hes the person who has the better intercourse force and is alawys starting up it. I believe you men must simply take a holiday from intercourse to allow him cool off and pass over it once more. And a different factor I've heard lol is that consuming alot of quantities of chocolate and oysters truthfully raises libido =]

Answer 6

he sounds gay... I will *** you if you want

because I am a 15 year old boy

Answer 7

let him take vigara