he said he was steaming ( very drunk ) and his mates are sayin it was just a kiss but im not sure?
2007-04-22 22:58:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you don't trust him the relationship is in trouble. Did he tell you he kissed another girl or did someone else? if he told you he has no reason to lie. if it doesn't feel right get out, if you still love him give it time maybe have a little time apart
2007-04-23 02:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not good. A kiss is more personal, in my opinion, than having a one night stand but the fact that you are doubting him even though he has confessed to you is bad. My best friend's fiance cheated on her whilst on a lads holiday and he swore it was just a kiss but she recently found out it was more than that and she is angry and hurt by it all. She does not know what to do about it because it was years ago now and to bring it up may harm their already fragile relationship. You could just try and get the info out of him now although he may well deny it until he is blue in the face. So you will then have two choices, you either trust him or suspect something for the rest of your relationship. The problem is when some men, not all I am sure, go on a lads night out then their mates tend not to talk sense into them and that then leads to all sorts of problems. It is up to you this one, hassle him until the truth comes out or trust him and carry on as if nothing happened. You will need to reevaluate your relationship though because he still did something out of order.
2007-04-23 08:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. With out knowing the full details how it happened I would not say dump him for that. If you feel you love him. But you do have to call him on it. Not in front of your family or peers. But off to the side in private. Ask him how HE would feel if he was at a party and you kissed some other guy or let him feel your a**? Tell him EVEN if he did not love or like that other girl. He was disrespecting you, and disrespecting you openly(because people you know could or was expose to it)Forgive him, but tell him you will forgive him IF he proves it was incidental and not systemic.
2007-04-23 06:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being drunk is not an excuse to run around kissing women. So, everytime he kisses another woman, and he tells you that he was drunk, are you going to forgive him? That is just an excuse. Tell him that if you ever hear of him kissing another girl, he better plan on making her his new girlfriend because you are not going to put up with it!!!
2007-04-23 06:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but not an excuse I would let him get away with, but guess you know your man, if you love and trust him and believe he is telling the truth and it will never happen again then move on from it, if there is doubt in your mind about him then seems there is no trust between you so maybe its time to move on and put it down to experience, you have to do what you feel is best for you alone so good luck and be happy.
2007-04-23 11:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of first off. if u are a dating a guy who drinks and parties too much then its obviously not a very mature relationship and he doesnt really care about it. and as far as that old excuse of 'honey i was drunk' is bull. he doesnt respect you as a girlfriend. And he and his 'mates' are probably laughing about making a fool out of you, and he probably does this all the time, if not having sex with another chick too. dont trust him, and dump him. find a decent guy who doesnt drink and respects you.
2007-04-23 06:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry whats stopping him going to another party and getting drunk and kissing another girl? uummm thinking what I'm thinking i would walk away from him other wise he will do it again and again.sorry Hun you have to leave now
2007-04-23 06:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by lady z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was steaming and could kiss another girl, why didnt he find u to kiss u, make him explain why he did that.
2007-04-23 06:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it was proberly just a one off kiss but still thats not a good thing
2007-04-23 06:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by George1008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't have a HISTORY of doing things like that, I'd give him the benefit of the doubt... But, if it happens again... Watch out! ::HUGS::
2007-04-23 06:02:31 · answer #10 · answered by PrettyMama982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋