First...she is a dirtball never does dishes or cleans, but also...
But the big problem is this. Everything in the apt is mine. When we first moved in we had a futon in our living room and my tv. When I would get home from work she would already be on the futon with papers and crap everywhere so I had nowhere to sit. So I went out and bought a comfy chair and ottoman. Well she started taking that over. So whatever if she beats me to it fine I will move her **** off the futon and sit there. However, yesterday I had the chair. I got up and went into my room to print something and she yells she is taking my chair. I said like hell you are. she goes i am already in the chair. i say when lost comes on i am getting it back. she goes we'll see about that. i grow silent and over annoyed and want to cry because this is the bratty **** she does and she doesnt clean. so then i grow silent she goes its not like you will stay awake anyway. i dont respond. am i wrong for being mad at this?
2007-04-26 14:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by vuwildcat06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, you're not wrong. You need a new roommate. Rather than booting her out, I would find a new roommate, move out, and empty the apartment.
2007-04-26 14:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Alice K 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why you dont you be an adult and talk about it, when you get a chance, turn off the TV, sit in front of her and say " I need to talk to you about somethings that are bothering me". If you tell her straight out then hopefully she will change, because it seems to me that she thinks youre just joking around. If she doesnt know how can you expect her to stop? Try this, I wish you luck!!!
2007-04-26 21:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Crazy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't being a brat! She needs to be respectful of your space and your things. If possible, just get a new roommate. If that's not possible, you're going to have to sit down and have a heart to heart with her. Good luck.
2007-04-26 21:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to consider getting a new roommate. It doesn't sound like yours is very respectful of property.
As for the cleaning...you need to split those duties.
Tell her to get on the ball or she will be looking for a new place.
2007-04-26 21:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by emt_me911 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be upset, especialy if the things are all yours. If she wants somewhere to sit she should sit on the floor or go and buy her filthy *** one to sit in that is hers.
2007-04-26 21:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by Roscoe 1980 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not at all. your roomate is being very disrespectful. maybe you should just talk to her and tell her how you feel. she may not realize that SHE's coming off as such a brat.
2007-04-26 21:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by abc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No beat that ***** up
2007-04-26 21:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋