He says he won't pick anyone because he doesn't know. What should I say or do to make him go to the dance with me?
2007-04-26 18:48:03 · 9 answers · asked by brendagee. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all....some friend you've got there /wonder what she'll do for an encore....O.k.,lets get down to business.You need to act as though you never asked him at all.As a matter of fact, try to stay as far away from him as possible.There is nothing worse than feeling pressured. when you are around him,be as casual as you can.If he knows you & the other girl are "friends"(and i use that term lightly) that could be a problem.he may feel put in the middle of something.if he goes w/one of you ,it could hurt your friendship.Let her pester him about it.If he doesn't go with either of you,at least he'll remember her as a pain in his a**.You on the other hand,if you're quiet &casual &just smile when he's around,he may feel at ease.that's what you'll want,right?And if he's comfortable,there's a good chance he will ask you........p.s. don't tell your 'friend' what you're doing...just sit back and watch her make an a** out of herself. (she was your friend,right? she should have known you liked him.) get a better friend...p.s.s. everyone has a Judas,she's yours!
2007-04-26 19:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know, not sure. But the girl I always wanted was the cool chick that I didn't think I could get. If your friend knows that he's your "crush" and still asked him out, she may not be your friend. Tell him to go with your friend, and that you'll pick someone better. That probably won't work but at least you'll be in the drivers seat. Guys are generally the same, we like girls who are interesting, can communicate, honest, sincere, and cute. If you have any of those, try them. Find a time to get him by yourself and just talk to him like a friend. It's a start.
2007-04-26 19:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Searching for answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 change a friend she is no good for you if she knows that he is your crush. 2 he is a good guy if he does not want to pick between two of you becouse he doesn't want to hurt anyone and if he will pick one he will start end of your friendship
2007-04-26 18:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by betty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him decide. Maybe he doesn't want to hurt one of your feelings by choosing the other. Maybe talk to your friend about how much you like him and she might back off. Otherwise, suggest the three of you all going together as friends. That way, no one feels bad.
2007-04-26 18:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Morgs L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, OMG!! How can u and your friends fight over a stupid boy??? I mean...isn't it like soooooo random?! But if the boy's cute then that's different! But you should sort this out calmly with your friend! GOOD LUCK!
2007-04-26 18:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends like her, you don't need any enemies!!! If he has to think about it so hard, he is not really interested in either one of you. Tell him to go with her, and ask someone else.
2007-04-26 18:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o, boy, shouldn't it be a boy's job to ask girls out? try not to start a fist fight with your friend over a guy in front of him. all boys will not respect u after that
yes, i think this first person is right - this is very fitting your personality i guess. tell him that
2007-04-26 18:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by yeahright 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you like him then prove it make him jealous and he'll have to pick you
2007-04-26 18:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by jones_soda_co._lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him youl suck him schlong
2007-04-26 18:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by Nicolle 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋