Hi,how can I stop my self from being controlling? = (?

Question

I am always telling people what to do and especially my boyfriend.Can you give me some good advice please! thank you = )

Answer 1

For twenty-one days, each morning and each night, say, "I am happy when other people make their own choices." It's phrased positively, and doing it for three weeks will remind you each day to allow others to do things without your telling them. Each time you start telling someone what to do, stop yourself and say, "That's not like me. I'm in control of what I say and do. I can stop myself from doing this." It will work if you give it three weeks. Read Cybernetics for more info.

Answer 2

you've made the first step by seeing that you indeed have a problem with controlling behavior. The only thing I can think of is put yourself in the situation and think how it would make you feel if it was happening to you.
Best of luck.

Answer 3

allow others to control u,if not try to coltrol people like me who cannot be controlled so that you will get tired of failing and u will automatically stop controlling others .as the result u succed on loosing.even there-----------women win's happiness and pleasure on loosing